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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Can you provide an example of how time management directly impacts financial success, considering the principle “time is money”?
It is said that time well spent is time well used.
In other words time management implies two things.

Whenever I sit quiet, praying to Mother, everything seems to be settled. But when I go in the real world, I feel that people take me granted as my polite humble approach towards all. Why people show of their power and dominance always? Even the absolute power is the divine only. I have mild autism spectrum disorder, I always find out difficulties with communication and over all social behavioural things with people and especially when people are dominating.
People are what they are because of various reasons. We cannot change them. What is important is how should we deal with them. With regard

People say you cannot buy time because time is money but if you buy things which can save your time isn’t it a way you are buying time?
Time is precious and money is not the only precious thing in life. Friends, family, studies, good character, education, health are all precious, more precious

How to explain death to my 6 year old? She also asked me what happens after death?
You can tell her that when the body and mind undergoes wear and tear through the journey of life, the soul goes to God to

Can you please explain The Mother’s grace in our lives?
The Mother’s Grace and Love is the most powerful and action of the Divine that helps creation move forward inspite of all resistances and difficulties.

Everybody deserves to not be rich or they cannot be rich?
Everybody deserves to be have enough money to be able to take care of their needs and lead a reasonably comfortable life. This does not

What to do if your husband keeps fighting with u constantly over small small things n blames u for your reactions against the argument. How can I make him calmly see this ?
First thing one needs to see is whether he has a tendency to be critical and querrulous with others too or is it largely confined

How is a birth mark formed? Does it have anything to do with previous life?
Birth marks are generally due to the unique genetic makeup. They are not

Why does a squirrel have 3 lines on the back some people tell that Rama has put 3 fingers is that true?
The story is symbolic of how we can receive the touch of God and

How can I control my anger ?
By staying busy, doing lot of exercises, listening to soft music, regular practice of asanas and deep breathing exercises.
Of course

Why do people make us feel what we think is impossible?
Whatever has come within the range of human thought and feelings, whatever has entered the realm of human imagination, whatever has taken hold of human

I did not understand the difference between the central being and psychic being. The psychic being is the soul which we need to realise. Right? Then what is the central being?
The psychic being is the fully developed soul within man. The soul develops through the cycle of birth and death and rebirth just as a

How can I shield my child from negative influences at school and elsewhere, given that I can’t always be present?
It is not easy to shield the child but what we can and must always do is to equip the child to deal with them.

How can i be happy?
Our natural state should be that of happiness.
But as we grow the spontaneous happiness of a child gets covered due to the social

How to deal with not so useful thought that something could go wrong?
By giving a counter suggestion that nothing will go wrong and repeating to yourself an inspiring phrase such as ‘all will be well’ or a

As a mother, how do I manage to not pass my fears and inhibitions to my child?
By conquering your own fears.
This can be done by several means.
Simplest and most powerful of all is a

When I am out with my friends, eating, drinking dancing, travelling, I feel happy but the days I am home alone nothing to do I feel low and don’t feel like getting up. Why this happens?
Partying, drinking, socializing are ways people try to forget their loneliness. But as is evident these things are not only harmful but counterproductive in the

I feel everyone is judging me all the time, how to get over this feeling?
Don’t pay attention to what people think or say to you. Pay attention only to what