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In previous times whatever I feel in the lower abdominal part (a pressure) now that same thing I feel in my physical heart. A strong pressure act on this place that give a lot of pain in my physical heart. By her grace the lower nature part remain peace or calm but in a moment when the negative thought or things arise then the physical heartđ feel a strong pain it seems my heart is breaking. What is this? What is the pain inside of physical heart?
Pain in the heart is due to the pressure of the psychic being. It is perhaps this pressure that brought calm in the lower nature.

I came across these difficult passages from the Vedasđ. The following are the mantras: I shall now disclose that the father produced seven kinds of food through meditation and rites. One is common to all eaters. Two he assigned to the gods. Three he designed for himself. And one he gave to the animals. On it (food) rests everything-whatsoever breathes and whatsoever breathes not. Why are not these foods exhausted although they are always being eaten? He who knows the cause of this inexhaustibility of the food eats food with pre-eminence (pratika). He obtains identity with the gods and lives on nectar. [Yajur Veda, Brihadaranyaka Upanishad I, V-Manifestations of Prajapati, 1] What are the 7 kinds of food,what is meant by 2 he assigned to the gods?
Food involves all that we take in, consume. Prana or life energy is common to all. Material food is given to animals and all that

One feels the basis of all good work in a solid peace that nothing can disturb. Just when you think you have attained some foundation in peace, something or the other attacks you and disturbs it all. How does one cultivate a peace independent of outward circumstances? What are those required qualities or actions that need to be doneđ¤?
Yes thinking about it almost soon enough makes us vulnerable. Over the years the one perfect remedy I have felt and known is to shift

Is our purpose in life merely to please our parents by doing whatever they ask? When we don’t meet their expectations, they often say, “You have made us unhappy,” or “Because of you, we are suffering.” They emphasize ideas like, “You must keep your parents happy, you will never find happiness if you make them unhappy,” and regard parents as equivalent to gods. Even for someone who is not pursuing a spiritual life, is it necessary to always prioritize pleasing parents? When they don’t understand your path, your goal and say things like these, what should one do?
If the purpose of life was to please parents, elders or anyone else then the Gita would be meaningless. The purpose of life is not

Yesterday I was just laid on my bed looking at the ceiling listening to music. And I was just thinking of Mother Her Sweetness. I had my eyes open and whilst the music was playing I went into this state of just inexplicable distance. Still with eyes open, I saw a majestic, cosmic, energy with colours I canât really name. But like a mix of orange and yellow but very subtle colours not powering or crude to the âeyesâ (eyes open I donât know how to explain). Then there were two parts to me. One who was witnessing whatâs about to happen and one part of me partaking.
It is a very rare Grace, an experience of the Divine Mother in Her cosmic aspect and the psychic being (the tiny part which is

What if in love someone take your selflessness as licentiousness to do whatever they want. What should be our attitude towards them?
One should not allow oneself to become a martyr. Life is much greater and vaster than human love. And while love is no doubt the

Do problems/difficulties exist in the world and in everyone’s life because we are not seeking the Divine?
Everyone has difficulties in life, whether one is seeking the Divine or not. Even those who have found the Divine have their own share of

You recently spoke of the mother’s prophecies, long back I remember reading about her prophecy of london sinking underwater, is this also inevitable?
There is indeed a prophesy like that which is more like caution that being on the sea level, if the waters rise high in the

Each god has two functions related to we humans :-1) In religious sense they are supreme since they can fulfill any legitimate wish to lead a good life but in ignorance. 2) In spiritual sense they are just different aspects of the supreme managing the creation but can be taken as door through which one can pass over to the supreme. Am I understood correctly?
Yes, but with a slight correction. In the religious sense, each god cannot or would not fulfil all the wishes. For example Saraswati can give

How can we understand the below two truths together: 1) Manifestation will never end because the Divine is eternal and infinite. 2) The highest is what we call Purushottama, but man can get to the Ananda plane only.
Manifestation is not only about passing from one plane to another, as for example, from the vital life of an animal or plant to the

As I am Srimad Ramayanam, Srimad Bhagavadam, definitely they give a clear insights about Divine qualities different and higher than even Satwic, or ascetic qualities,we come across among Great kings and Rishis, Tapaswins. So personally for me reading SriRama, Srikrishna, Kapila, Vamana , all very helpful in understanding SriAurobindo’s evolution theory of Man into Divine. Secretaly every body cherishes to be like SriRama , MotherSita , but feel it’s impossible, so self contented with reading about them, meditating on them, we close the book༤ But SriAurobindo gives a different dimension to our thoughts that even I can become a Perfect Part of The Divine Lord Rama or The Divine Mother Sita , embracing some divine qualities from them.
Yes these books help nourish our psychic parts until we are ready to undertake the journey and become what we presently hardly understand.

Many atheists are living happier lives than theists. At least that is what I think. Believers seek help from divine forces to live a happy life, while atheists live their lives on their own strength and do not take any help from divine powers. Why is this so? Is the concept of divine powers an illusion or are human efforts more powerful than the power of a deityđ¤?
But who said that atheists are happier. None is happy upon earth except one who has mastered his ego and conquered his desires, – believing

It is said that Kanyadaan is the highest form of daan. Is that true�
There is no mention of Kanyadaan in the Vedas. It is mentioned in the Manu Smriti as part of many injunctions for the maintenance of

Shiva is the Force aspect of the Divine. Then which Shiva is in Kailash and Kashiđď¸?
These are his heavenly and earthly abodes, – Kailash in the higher regions and Kashi upon earth. But he is everywhere, ever in each electron

Alok da, how to control speechđ¤?
Speech is the last and the highest amongst the faculties that have evolved in human beings. It has two aspects, sound and word. The impact

How do watching horror đą movies affect our consciousness?
Human beings can be seen as receivers and transmitters of certain energies and vibrations, as conduits of states of consciousness, as instruments and channels of

Alok da, the other day my son came from school and he was so irritated he had to do a write up on Mahatma Ghandhi and he just did not want to, he said I have had it ahimsa and all that, then I remember that when I was a child I myself was irritated to study about him, all that was do boring and then why son asked me why is he even called the father of the nation ? And I know studying ghandhi ji is so boring oh these dharam karam ki baatein as a teenager I could not relate to him, he is not like Shivaji or Rama or Krishna or Sri Aurobindo.. what should I tell himâŚđ¤?
You can tell him that everyone has his own ideas and so did Gandhi ji have his own. As far as his ideas go, they

I had a dream last night I saw that I have board a very very fast moving train đ and we are going to some place which we don’t know but seems like a place like there was too much crime and chaos, everything is fine we sat down, then suddenly everybody in the train was asked to came in between the walking area between seats of the train away from the windows, I was surprised why we are asked to do so…someone told me it’s going to a place like Bihar and we want that nobody gets to see that there are people inside this train…I could not see people outside the train as it was moving with full speed…but they said there are people outside and they may attack us..so people inside the train stood in between the path of the train.
The extremely fast train is the vital aspects of Nature under whose influence or impulse we often move. This is disorienting and confusing especially as