We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Ā
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Would it be the right decision to marryš someone who shares your core aspirations?
Indeed that is best though it does not automatically ensure a smooth and harmonious relationship. This is so because even after turning to the same

Why is mumma always tired šI did her work once did cooking and all the rest of the things but I could still after that play a football match?
Because mumma is involved in too many different kinds of work, possibly also missing out on her sleep as well in trying to make her

One thing pains me a lot. I see that people who waste money and resourcesš , for example re-constructing homes, breaking and taking down good furniture and replacing it with a new one, wasting electricity in the name of home decorations, wasting water in the name of digging borewells instead of sharing, purchasing what is not required just for the sake of satisfaction and show off, spending lavishly in wedding and the list is endless. Most pathetic thing is that these are the people who have a lot of money while various others strive to fulfill daily needs and try hard to save money to satisfy small- small desires. why such combinations like sensible, spiritual and rich are less? Does it has anything to do with one’s thinking pattern? How can one earn money and be good and sensible at the same time?
Yes it should ideally be so, should have been so, but human beings easily respond to the Asuric temptations of a life of pleasure and

Dharm ki paribhaasha kya hai š[What is the definition of Dharm?]
The word Dharm comes from the Sanskrit root dhr which means to hold giving rise to similar words like dharan, dharini, dhoori, dhruv etc. Taking

Dear Alok Da, I irritate you so much by asking the same thing over again and again, but still how come you donāt get angry ? How do you manage itš?
Asking questions, even again and again, is your right. So that is no reason for irritation. Similarly answering questions is my…

Why is it so difficult to break up with someoneš? There are things you like about the person, yet at the same time, some things donāt feel right about the same person. If two people arenāt meant to be together for a lifetime, why do they meet, fall in love, and then drift apart? Why do girls become so emotionally attached that letting go feels nearly impossible? The thought of that person loving and treating someone else the same way they treated you can be heartbreaking. You also feel jealous about these things. Itās(the breakup) overwhelmingāmaking it hard to focus on anything in life, leaving you feeling sad all day and night, and disconnected from everything happening around you.
It is the sense of loss that torments us in a breakup. We naturally get attached to all that nourishes or nurtures us in some

I had a dream last nightš«¤, we were to take a flight with my family I boarded a flight and I got on the flight and waiting for my husband and son but they did not come, the flight took off and I was anxious about my son. My sister was in the flight but her daughter too did not board but she was indifferent to it. Then when we returned back in the room I met my son and my niece and it was one of my husbandās pranks and I got so angry at my husband for the rest of the dream I was w him on and on, I hardly get angry so when I got up I could not believe how I was angry and shouting for such a long time.. What does this dream mean?
This dream indicates that you are progressing very fast and the rest of your family members are unable to keep pace. It is delaying your

I work in the field of stock market and Finance at the same time I have a strong pull inside me towards Sri Aurobindo and Sri Krishna. I am very much moved by the Essays on the Gita and am trying to put into practice whatever little I have understood. There Sri Krishna does not qualify works into Divine and Undivine but rather advises to turn all life into a Yoga. My question is how can I transform my professional activities into a Karmayoga, because all of my professional actives whirl around the satisfaction of my own or somebody else’s desires while Sri Krishna advises to work in a desireless spiritš„?
he steps to turning all works into karmayoga may be summarised as below.
1. Remember the Divine at the beginning of whatever you

What is the use of doing all Pujaās and all once you have turned to The Mother? Why people who have turned to her do all this ? Isnāt it a step back from what Mother is teaching us š«¤?
There is certainly no need to do any pujas once one has turned to the Divine Mother. All our puja and worship and surrender must

How can we become worthy of God’s love šfor us?
God’s love is unconditional. But to receive His Love we have to open ourselves to Him and what better way than to respond to God’s

Who are the inferior God’s referred by Sri Aurobindo in Savitrišļø?
These are the gods who are stationed in the vital and higher mental worlds. Their action is mainly to satisfy our desires, protect us sometimes

What is the difference between mukti and get oneness with Maa? Is that sameš¤?
Mukti is of different kinds but fundamentally it means freedom from Ignorance. It means that we know our soul, our true Self, the Divine within

Will the Superman have a body made of flesh and blood, or will it consist of only a subtle, ethereal form? What will be the constituents of his Supramental body as explained by the Mother and Sri Aurobindo? Kindly provide references to where they have discussed this conceptš¤Ø.
There is a difference between the body of the Superman and the Supramental body. The Superman is an intermediary between the human and the supramental

I realize that surrendering completely is essential, but I struggle with it. Right now, Iām not in a good placeāwhile my batchmates are progressing in their careers, I am still without a job despite working hard. This has affected my confidence deeply, and I find myself feeling inadequate and easily distractedš„. Please advise.
Success in outer life is a combination of factors. It is not a judgment on one’s capacity or character. Besides each person has his or

Mothers says cultivating disinterestedness is the first step towards living a true life. What are some of the practical ways to become disinterested, or act disinterestedly in lifeš¤? Especially when one sees so many defects in oneself.
It means to do things without reference to oneself, selflessly as an offering to Her regardless of the fruits or any other personal gain. In

Why did Sri Aurobindo not take up any writing from the 1920’s apart from Savitri? Did he think the mission was completeš¤?
His mission was far from simply writing books. That was only the beginning of his collective work for humanity. He came not only to teach

It is said that “Not even a leaf moves without God’s will”. If this is the case then why these Kumbh Snan, yoga, worship bhakti is required? Through these means can God be influenced to give us wisdom and strength to live a blissful lifeš¤Ø?
First of all this saying needs to be understood correctly and qualified because otherwise the logical conclusion would be that all the evil and wicked

What is the purpose of this evolution�
The purpose of evolution is to progressively manifest the Divine hidden in matter through steps and stages. Each species takes up something of the past