Bringing up a child can be a very challenging task and sometimes it does require quite a bit of sacrifice. But the child has not seen or known this as all this often happens backstage behind the scenes. It is actually an act of love and comes very naturally due to the parent’s instinct. But because this love is still mixed with the human elements it seeks acknowledgement from the child. This is how human love operates that when someone does something for someone, even as an act of love, one feels the need for return in some way, whether in cruder forms such as money and obedience or subtler forms such as appreciation and acknowledgement. It is in all forms of human love. Usually parents express because this need is not being met with.
But yes it can be burdening to a child since the child begins to feel obliged and does not know how exactly to return, especially if this expression is tagged with expectations. True, parents should not say it as it does burden the child but equally it helps if the child simply expresses affection to the parents through simple gestures, a hug or a card on birthday or simply a warm expression of love. It helps cement the relationship and builds harmony at home.
Affectionately,
Alok Da
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perceive the bliss and peace in that state of psychic sleep, if it is unconscious..?
inside myself. I don’t know where this pattern comes from, but I think the main reason is that I try to always avoid confrontations with people. Yet, the anger still remains inside as negativity and tension. Sometimes I envy people who can just freely express their anger at others without suppressing it in this way. I think part of the problem has also to do with moral upbringing — the notion that anger is bad and that you should be composed. What would you suggest me to do? Is learning to express your anger better than keeping it inside? 
look of uncouth people especially men around who are aware of the fact. So I feel very troubled about my safety and security. Also I want to overcome the very feeling and overcome ominous thoughts that trouble me. Also, I don’t have learnt techniques of self defense neither do I have any scope to learn it at this point of time. 
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