Home » Children » Adult Children » My father is very controlling. He has a habit of making decisions for us. I am 30 and I do not know how to say no to him or tell him to mind his own business?
There is no how to saying it. It has to be said and if one cannot say it then one simply accepts and bears the burden. One needs to understand that this kind of obedience is simply a lack of courage. It helps neither you nor your father.
Affectionately,
Alok da.
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My experiences? They are too many. Some of them are shared in different interviews on auromaa. The real key and the central experience of this Yoga is however, to feel, discover, live in the Mother’s Presence, to live for Her, and by Her.
Emotional maturity is very simply the ability to postpone one’s gratification. It means not to rush or speak and act under surge of emotions but to wait and delay until the urge has settled into a quiet place. The reason is that during the surge one believes that the felt emotion is as if the only truth. It colours and overrides everything…
Each one is responsible mainly for one’s own progress. What others do is their problem. We should mind only our own business.
