We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Alok da , Throughout our two epics the proud heros make heroic proclamations on how they will not yield to fate, how they will challenge the fate with their will, manhood and courage, they display such a dynamism of self will and resoluteness in such moments and even Savitri’ s tale is about challenging fate but we have also this disposition towards surrender, of telling the mother let thy will be done. Is there any really a bit of conflict between both these standpoints? If my will and desire isn’t exactly in tune with the Mother’s will can I be stubborn like an angry child that I will rather die fighting for it rather than accept the fact that this might not be the Mother’s will🤨?
Here we have to first understand that the Divine Will does not operate freely in the world. If it did so the world would be

Sir, can you give your opinion on the peter heeh’s biography on Sri Aurobindo? was it really written from authenticated sources of ashram archive?
Much water has flown since the book came out. I have almost written a book on my criticism of the book. Several other acclaimed scholars

How do you deal with hostile people at workplace when they have bad intent and jealousies and it is disturbing my peace of mind and I am unable to focus on the goal😥?
One should never try to judge or get into the consciousness of other people as to what they are feeling and thinking etc. It is

Individually, it’s upto us to be ready to allow Mother’s working in us to effect the change of consciousness. But, what about the masses? Will the mass change of consciousness happen anytime soon🤨?
This is an interesting question that the Mother and Sri Aurobindo have addressed at different levels.
Certainly if the yoga is done only for

My parents wants me to get a job as soon as possible so that I can get settled as they are getting old. Almost, and I literally mean ‘almost everyday’ they tell me that all we want is jldi jldi job lag jaaye. Ghar basa den tumhara’. And this is the only reason I shifted my career option from philosophy teaching to something else… Although I have not started preparing for anything yet.😪[conti]
One doesn’t become a Hindu just by being born in a Hindu family. One should be a dwij, twice born, born into the spiritual life

Recently, there are so many posts coming up which are saying that the period from 2026 to 2032 is very bad. Many astrologers predicting the same. How far is this true? Does this period hold any special significance as far as the destiny of the world is concerned🫨?
Actually there is a great shift going on in the earth consciousness since the late fifties and early sixties. The process is becoming more and

I’m not doing any work and staying at home all day. I tried working, as I had told you earlier that I went to the mines, but everyone there was drinking alcohol, and I became sick. I don’t know if I’m becoming lazy and dodging work or if I simply don’t want to do all of this. It feels like living for money is a selfish life, and I don’t want to live like that. If I do any work apart from serving God, it feels futile to me😥
Work is indispensable for progress. Selfishness is an inner attitude and not in the work that one does. Of course doing sewa (service to the

Can one find true peace in daily activities such as cooking, cleaning and gardening? Someone told her that one can find true peace only through meditation or working in an Ashram department. However, my mother and I feel happy🙂 and peaceful, when we are doing our daily chores
Of course one can find inner peace anywhere and doing any kind of work. One of my earliest experiences was a concrete, solid descent of

My husband and i were married after being in relationship for 12 years. My family was against our marriage. So it took time. After 2 years of marriage I discovered he is in affair with another girl. We fought a lot and after taking a chance again we decided to have baby. Now we have a daughter, but his affair is continued. First our families were not knowing about it but now both the families know about it and he is not ready to live with us. He agrees in front of everyone that yes I have another woman in life and it’s because he was not satisfied with me 😢[conti]
Loyalty in marriage is rarer than we would want to believe. Especially men in all ages have been known to have more than one woman

Alok Da, how can we refine our senses🤔?
The degree of refinement of our senses depends upon the quality of our consciousness. At the same time if the senses indulge in crude pleasures

How do we become worthy of Mother’s grace😇?
Grace is Grace and it acts unconditionally or rather has its own logic that is not based on human sense of worthy and unworthiness. However

I feel so afraid of dogs. It is unnatural. This time in a short trip to Pondicherry, the dogs 🐕in gangs barked at me and I was even in the middle of fight between two gangs where a few of them came running behind me with voilent noises.
Dogs, in fact animals in general tend to mirror our emotions. Especially they react strongly to fear. Practice calling Peace and cultivate calm within you.

How can a man pass all these tests and filter it from truth? What is the need to love? Prem karney ki jarurat kya hai🙄?
Deceptions, tests, difficulties, illusions are terms that can be used and are often used to simply avoid the effort needed for our progress or to

Have you seen Krishna🦚? Does he have blue skin?
Well yes but not the way he is portrayed. The gods sometimes take the form that the human mind believes in. Sometimes they can take

What is difference inner being and psychic being🌟?
There are three layers of our personality. The first is the outer being. It is formed through habit, conditioning, heredity etc and acts largely as

How Can I take control over my mind🤯?
Everything is possible but the greater the task the longer it takes and one has to persevere with faith. If one is sincere in one’s

Please talk on certain routine for beginners, though I think there is no such thing in Sri Aurobindo yoga, for a deeper understanding and practice🤔
There is no such routine, as you rightly said. Some general notes on the practice can be found here:

What about the wives of warriors (Soilders) of Mahabharata, only 18 person remaining after war🤔?
They suffered, as Arjuna had feared. Wars, especially wars in ancient times almost invariably led to great number of widows as well as girls and