We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Ā
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Last night, I had many dreams, of which I remember two. One was a sexual dream, and the other was a dream where I went to a village to do divine work. There, a dog and a wild animal stood in front of me, but they couldn’t harm me. As I went further, the villagers told me, ‘How did you manage to escape from them? They have killed 130 people so far.’ Then I thought to myself, ‘You donāt know whose work Iāve come to do.’ After that, I was returning home after doing the divine work, and again, those same animals appeared in front of me, trying to bite me, and then the dream ended. Does this have any meaningš¤?
These are the difficulties coming on the path when we undertake the Divine Work. Generally dogs are not harmful creatures but some do represent agents

I go from top to bottom I was getting Down, like in a basement place, it was all maroon colour and had rooms ..chatted with some servants there, our neighbours son who is very dear to us had comes into his new home and he came out to meet me. This house was largely empty as i got down the inner room. As I am finding my way I realise the servants were over smart people. As I got down there are shoes out there in a untidy manner. I took a black pair of shoes and told the servantsĀ itās my sister and we have exchangedĀ and there is a red pair up which is mine I have left for her but servant had to check with the app on her phone. First it did not work so she doubted me as if I was steeling itā¦I told her check again properly. Then I showed her the black heel shoes, this time the app worked so I gave her a firing as you should do your work properly. A Wedding was going in background. Can you please explain this dreamš?
The maroon basement is the subconscient mind and the servants are possibly the senses whose action and working is being organised by the higher intelligence

When two people love each other – what does it mean when it is said that they never leave each other ? I know that they always remain in each otherās hearts but what does it mean that they are always together no matter outer circumstances? Does thinking about the person keep the two close tooš?
We are always close to people whom we love from the depths even if they be physically far from us. So too we may be

Dear Alok da, what is ‘seeing’ the Divineāļø everywhere and in everything? Especially when we are not yet equipped.To experience or realize it, as a first step, how to practice the idea consciously? Is it like remembering that Mother is in all and trying not to think or feel about something or someone as high or low?
Seeing here means a mental seeing through thought, imagination and idea that the Mother is everywhere, in everyone and everything. Later, as this idea grows

Do aliens exist? If so what is their purposeš½?
Creation is full of all kinds of creatures, in this and other galaxies, in this and other universes. Creation has no purpose in the human

Pranaam Revered Alok Da.Ā Ā my question is, whenever one takes this name Krishna, The Face of The Love of my life, my Lord, my Master Sri Aurobindo’s Handsome Face comes to my mind. Could it be my mental construction or something really more than thatš?
Mental constructions are general willed processes or habitual conditioning. Nothing wrong with that too. But this is a clear a psychic feeling and psychic vision

In one of the past answers you said that āEach Element, each Deity, each force, each plane can be resolved into certain rhythm and frequencies that were discovered by the Vedic rishisā Does it mean a mantra is a deity in itselfš¤?
It is the Sound-body and the Word-body of the deity. The principle behind it is that all forms start from the subtlest state of Matter

Is khandava daha parva basically about the clearing of the forests in the ancient times to make a way for the cities and civilized life? Agni desires to devour all the creatures and animals and Sri Krishna and Arjuna fullfill his desire without any mercy in slaying the animals in their warrior like frenzy and they later build Indraprastha over it, Even Ramayana too describes the dreary forests in all their gory and grim details, are the epics very much entangled in those times where clearing vast swathes of forests is a necessity for civilized lifeš¤?
But how else has any of the city developed? Even the place we are sitting and the cellphone on which we are typing is built

You have beautifully answered on the question asked on The marriage like keeping God in the centre, meeting with life challenges with power of love, supporting each other and serving the divine purpose but these things which you said seems out of our scope. We lack surity, conviction and unclear about our goals. If we don’t have such beautiful ideals so is it wiser to avoid Marriageš? Please guide.
They are not out of our scope. What is lacking is faith and courage, faith that nothing is impossible once something in us glimpses it

I my free time i keep on scrolling to YouTube Reels. How to stop this time killer addictionš? How to gain mastery on this? Please guide.
Have a clear goal for yourself, an ultimate goal so to say, and several mini goals as steps towards it. For example if the goal

No matter how much effort I make to organise our home it ends up in clutter, specially inside the drawers and cupboards, I am trying to change and get a bit organised as lot of time is wasted in looking for things but my son as well my husband are also some one who just dumps things in drawers etc, can you please advise as if I organise one corner the other gets disorganised plus many days I am running around and donāt get time to organise š„?Ā
So it means you have two children to look after as is common in many Indian households due to strictly defining gender roles, – men

What is ones duty when some elder in place of parent continues to harass youš and put you down all the time and manipulates?
Is standing for one self with self respect against this elder person and stopping this happen is against dharma. If some one who’s supposed to

How to know one has realised the Divine? Is it based on any sign or experience? I feel a constant pressure inside my heart and it gives an aspiration, peace and devotion towards the divine. On the other hand the surface nature constantly act by the negative movement. This reason sometime that pressure is vanished. How much time the body will act on the surface nature? It is very unnerving stage for me. The sexual thought, ambition, laziness, repeating the mistake etc spontaneously arises and act upon the body and mind. In this stage what should I doš„? Please show me the right direction.
The deeper one goes into the soul, the more these negative tendencies open up in the surface nature. Everyone has to pass through it with

So, can the psychic šperceive the bliss and peace in that state of psychic sleep, if it is unconscious..?
The psychic is in a state of peace and bliss always as it is its very nature. But since it enters into a state that

Why is it that many parents, especially those in their 50s, often glorify their past struggles, like working long hours just to earn dollars two hundred more, and keep reminding their children of the sacrifices they made to raise them? Why canāt they allow their children to recognize it naturally, instead of constantly seeking acknowledgment or credit and glorifying their struggles
Bringing up a child can be a very challenging task and sometimes it does require quite a bit of sacrifice. But the child has not

Is there any chance of confusions in genuine loveš?
Genuine love? That’s a rarety and a wonder. But even granted that it is there, confusions can always arise since human nature at large is

What is Sri Aurobindo’s and The Mother’s position on path of Devotionš®? As opposed to path of knowledge.
Sri Aurobindo and The Mother describe devotion as the crowning movement of Yoga. Faith, surrender to the Divine Mother, opening to Her through service and

I understand I need to let go of my father now. But before I got to know you and started bothering you with my unending questions, my father was my teacherš. I had never realized how well read my father was until I started reading Sri Aurobindo’s books about 7 years ago, that too with lot of skepticism.
It is never good to think of those who have passed beyond except when there is genuine gratitude and in a loving way. Memories, attachments,