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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask. 

This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

My ideology for Relationship and Marriage is very much changed after turning towards this path. I think this should be beautiful and harmonious and there should be some common ground between you and your partner. But friends and relatives outside usually say u need to do adjustment in marriage or relationship because nobody is perfect. I think if we need to do adjustment only or just for the sack of doing it then what is the sense i think its better to live single rather then doing adjustment😫.

Whatever may have been its high origin in the Vedic age when Rishis and Rishikas came together for a greater purpose, marriage has become today,

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My husband had a habit of trading in the stock market, which caused us to lose a lot of money earlier. We worked hard to pay off the debts, but I feel he has started trading again. He also pretends to go to the office, but HR confirmed he hasn’t been coming. Whenever I try to talk to him, we end up fighting, and he doesn’t give me clear answers😪.

It is an addiction, an obsession so to say and hence very difficult to get rid of unless there is a sincere will to get

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Alok da, I’ve once heard you say in one of the talks that a disciple who was away for sometime to study or something was surprised to see Sri Aurobindo’s hair and skin texture changing when he came back. I mean obviously not anywhere near to Sri Aurobindo’s tapas but are any little alchemical changes possible in our body when we offer all the daily acts at a minute level cos this does require us to be mindful of all the psychological states and physical inclinations and the identification and carrying with them in a state of exclusive concentration lessens and what people usually observe about stress reflecting in someone’s face and texture might not if this is the case. I don’t wanna reduce yogic practices to the desire of gaining some mere physical beauty or anything but that comment of yours was in mind for a long time and made me thinking about physical impacts of spiritual practices🤨.

Yes it was Shri AB Purani ji who noted the marked change in Sri Aurobindo. In those who sincerely take to the Yoga some changes

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Alok Da, what is the evidence that there is rebirth and how do you know in each life you progress? They say you have to discover your soul but how do you do that and how does discovering your soul lead you to understanding if you had a different life? Also you do lose your body and all your relations, how do you know that you are going to have a next life and if you will then it won’t be a bad one. Why must one leave this world? Why so imperfect body? If the Divine grace makes everything possible then is there just tiniest chance that in this life itself one can transform into a superhuman and why shouldn’t one be afraid of death and disease🙄?

Wonderful question. The whole universe is governed by two laws and processes of Time that complement each other. First is a constant forward movement of

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