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I already have a daughter. When I conceived for the second time, some people advised me to take medicine from a different source to have a son, while others suggested doing a computer (sex selection). But I didn’t listen to them because everything I have received from childhood until now, I have received from the Mother. So I said that Mother will give what she wants to. But now that I have a daughter, people are asking why I didn’t do the computer or why I didn’t take medicine. I feel like I was wrong. I am unable to come out of this situation. I am not sure how to stabilize myself and move forward. Please give me some solutions😥.

We should listen to our own self and our own judgment instead of listening to people’s words. The Mother has never differentiated between a boy and a girl. We should not make this distinction either. This discrimination is a legacy of ancient times and outdated consciousness. However, our goal is to create a new consciousness and a new creation. What you did was absolutely right.

Now, free your mind from inner conflicts and provide your children with excellent education and beautiful values. Don’t let your self-confidence and faith diminish. There are many who take the easy path, but true individuals are always few. Present an example of a true woman to society and instill excellent qualities in your daughter. This will be your strongest response to society.

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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