By attaching oneself to the Divine one gets more and more detached with the surface play of the world which is essentially a play of ignorance. The process is to step back every time the world forces provoke us to react. Step back and see how important or unimportant the situation is essentially in comparison to the goal placed before us. You will see that most of the time the value we give to an event is way too high than it really is. We also begin to observe that if we pause a little much of the reaction dies down and as the storm subsides we can see better, act better.
Finally since our detachment is not by applying some mental force which creates reactions but due to a growing attachment with the Divine, a new understanding awakens us giving us a better and a total perspective and grasp over the situation. Aided by the Divine to whom we are attached and who is with us, we feel supported and helped by a greater power to resolve our problems and issues than what our limited mind could even conceive of.
Affectionately
Alok da
