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Alok Da, I have got attached to someone after a physical intimacy (kind of night stands – about 4-5) but he is not. how to handle it. Actually I thought I am in love with him…so I allowed all that to happen…else i happened to be someone who wouldn’t let anyone touch me. What should I do? I am afraid of conveying my feelings to him as I know he is not going to reciprocate. I am just always craving his proximity, which i know is my problem.. How can I be at peace?? I want to detach myself from those feelings i have towards him?

September 6, 2026

What has happened has happened. It serves no purpose looking back and feeling bad. Life gives several learning lessons. This is one of them and

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“God is our wise and perfect friend, because he knows when to smite and when to fondle, when to slay us no less than when to save and to succour…. There must be faith in the love and wisdom of God,… working out all for our good even when it is apparently veiled in evil.” (Sri Aurobindo, 1984 Ashram Diary, July 3 and August 22) 😊🙏🏻🌼[…]

September 6, 2026

It is true that we live in a universe where Ignorance predominates. Yet the Divine Force always supercedes it using every experience, good and bad,

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Alok da, I’ve been reading the message that you gave me and the Mother’s message as well, repeatedly; it soothes me and calms me down. But lately I feel so blinded and clouded by my thoughts and emotions that I’m not able to make the right decision, act in the right manner, and see things clearly. 🙍🏻‍♀️❤️‍🩹🦋[…]

September 5, 2026

You don’t need to join an Ashram to end this suffering which is primarily due to a gross mismatch between mutual expectations. Not going into

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I’m facing a peculiar problem. My father-in-law, who is 87 years old, is fond of watching sex videos. Since he is hard of hearing, he plays those videos loudly. There were a number of times when we took his mobile and formatted it. But every time, he himself installed those sites and watched those videos. 👴🏻📱🦋🍂[…]

September 5, 2026

You have to treat it as a medical problem. Social disinhibition is known in old age and certain age related conditions such as dementia. He

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Does Sri Aurobindo’s view align with Divine Tolerance—where an act of dense Ignorance occurs outside direct divine scripting, and Grace cannot intervene because the victim’s soul personality lacks the necessary force to resist lower impulses—or active Divine Authorship, where the event is karmically scripted under Divine Providence as the best possible outcome? Between these two frameworks, which one reflects his true perspective? 🤔🌌🌸

September 5, 2026

The second one.

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In this vast universe, feeling alone and tiny without Mother. It feels as if there is no existence of me without her. But life conditions and day-to-day work give a feeling of existence. But as soon as I retreat from daily office works, the same feeling of separation without Mother continues for the rest of the day. 🥲🙏🏻🌸🌌[…]

September 5, 2026

She is with you. It is just that your outer consciousness is unable to feel Her. Without Her sanction you won’t be able to even

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