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I dreamt that we three school friends entered into a field. There was a stage some people seated on the stage with small small groups & gossiping themselves & other are in the field ground & field was full with people. I noticed a tiny puppy attacking to the people, but when we entered it started attacking me I just played a funny with it by just jumping; it unable to catch me or bite me after 3-4 times of jumping I just jump to the stage & it caught my hand while going to bite me I shaked my hand & it fell down.ย ๐Ÿ’ค๐Ÿ’ญ๐ŸŒ™โญ

These are generally attacks from forces in the vital world. It is difficult to say what it represented. Dogs generally represent faithfulness. But here it

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For the past few days, I’ve been feeling that I have no love within me, and I don’t know how to love? And a person cannot truly love until they allow the Divine Mother to descend into their heart. And I see that instead of love, there is selfishness, possession, insecurity, demands, and expectations โ€“ all of which are driving the relationship. A person is one way one day and completely different the next, as if the forces of nature and circumstances are controlling them; they act according to these external influences. There is no permanence in human relationships. Is it just my inner fear, some negativity, or something else?๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ’”๐ŸŒซ๏ธ

It is a conversion of consciousness leading to a reversal, a very positive thing. You are no more the same person because of the inner

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My younger brother (9 years old) is too sensitive, emotional and arrogant. He cries TOO MUCH at silly things wasn’t showed enough expressive love by our parents hence craves for it. He is too stubborn and doesn’t stop screaming until the thing gets done for him..is too delusional that he thinks everything will be served to him in the plate. Whenver i try to make him understand by saying that he needs to work hard and stop wasting time on watching other people succeed(cricket; he is too attached to it..as if his life depends upon it) he doesn’t take my words seriously or maybe he just doesn’t understand what im trying to say. I don’t understand how to tell him how important physical and mental discipline is and that without it he would face serious consequences. Please guide me in this context amd how my parents should change in order to bring the best in him.ย ๐Ÿ‘ฆ๐ŸŽ’๐Ÿ›น

Children do not understand these consequences at 9. It is only as reason begins to develop around 11 or 12 that one can discuss these

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My friend’s uncle might be suffering from cancer in his mouth, so they are taking him to the doctor, so my friend said you also come along, we will first go to Gurudev and then we will show him to the doctor in the morning, that friend is also associated with Gurudev, so there is no problem in going with Dada but there is no desire to go to Gurudev’s place, only Mother, so should I go with him or not?๐ŸŽ—๏ธ๐Ÿค•๐Ÿฉบ๐Ÿ’Š

It is the inner motive that is most important. The Mother is everywhere and in everything. Carry Her in your heart and Her Love and

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I heard you directly for the first time in two active Zoom sessions on “Savitri: The Epic Poem”, over the last two evenings.ย  I felt your words were very insightful, practical, and uplifting. In light of your response on parenting to a question posed to you, I have a question to seek some further guidance for my adolescence children…๐ŸŽ’๐ŸŽง๐ŸŽฎ๐Ÿ“ฑ

At his Age children resist any unasked advice. The fact that he is engaging in discussions, even if to refute indicates that he is open

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I have picked some paras from what you shared with me. “I said that between the age of eighteen and twenty I had attained a conscious and constant union with the divine Presence and that I had done it all alone, with absolutely nobody to help me, not even books, you understand! When I found oneโ€”here came to my hands a little later Vivekananda’s Raja Yogaโ€”it seemed to me so wonderful a thing, you see, that someone could explain something to me. This made me gain in a few months what would have perhaps taken me years to do.”๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ๐Ÿคโ™พ๏ธ๐ŸŒ

Here is Sri Aurobindo’s letter that, in a way, explains the birth and life, not only of The Mother but of all Avatars.

‘There

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โ€œ…you carry in yourself all the obstacles necessary to make your realization perfect. Always you will see that within you the shadow and the light are equal: you have an ability, you also have the negation of this ability. But, if you discover a very black hole, a thick shadow, be sure that somewhere in you there is a great light. It is up to you to know how to use the one to realize the other.โ€โ€• The Mother. So how with our ordinary and inner being we do this? What does this mean? โ€ฆ. As this is so important I feel soโ€ฆ..dada you speak about it please๐Ÿงฑ๐Ÿง—๐Ÿšง

When one starts the spiritual journey there are quite a number of movements in one’s nature that contradict the journey such as doubts, fears, vanity,

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I have a question, and I hope you will forgive me if it sounds a little confusing. I work in one of the departments of the Ashram. I have joined this place to Serve Her and to contact Her inwardly. But the atmosphere there is quite tough and almost everyone is scolded frequently, sometimes with reason and sometimes without. While the scolding itself is not the real difficulty, what troubles me more is that in a place where we are meant to grow inwardly and deepen our contact with the Divine, that sense of presence feels almost lost. This leads me to my deeper question: Is working the department is Her Only Work. Or is there something I am failing to understand or align with inwardly?๐Ÿชท๐Ÿง˜๐ŸŒ…๐ŸŒณ

Sri Aurobindo and The Mother have spoken of the two atmospheres of the Ashram. There is first and foremost the atmosphere that pervades the place

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Iย have a question which may be a bit silly. I have noticed that people tend to deify anyone and everyone who has achieved some kind of spiritual realisation. They are believed to be Avatars of some god or goddess. Is there really any truth to it or is it just fanciful imagination? Personally, I feel that this justifies the idea that it is not possible for an ordinary soul to achieve such things and one needs to be Divine to be able to do such things.โ˜€๏ธ๐Ÿ‘‘๐Ÿ”ฝ๐ŸŒ

The first kind are the Vibhutis.

The truth behind the tendency to deify exceptional human beings in any field is that these human beings

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Sir, can you tell me the way how to make understand to my father. I have recently tried making understand him that but by smiling and letting not my ego come but it comes little bit. Maybe it’s not visible but I can feel. The responses of father is something like related to ego, I hope you understand.ย So I just want to know again if this situation persist, what shall I should do?๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ‘จ๐Ÿงฑ๐Ÿ‘ค

I can understand and it is no doubt challenging. You can try talking to him when he is in a bit of happier mood. If

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