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Pranaam Revered Alok Da. my question is, whenever one takes this name Krishna, The Face of The Love of my life, my Lord, my Master Sri Aurobindo’s Handsome Face comes to my mind. Could it be my mental construction or something really more than that😐?
Mental constructions are general willed processes or habitual conditioning. Nothing wrong with that too. But this is a clear a psychic feeling and psychic vision

In one of the past answers you said that “Each Element, each Deity, each force, each plane can be resolved into certain rhythm and frequencies that were discovered by the Vedic rishis” Does it mean a mantra is a deity in itself🤔?
It is the Sound-body and the Word-body of the deity. The principle behind it is that all forms start from the subtlest state of Matter

Is khandava daha parva basically about the clearing of the forests in the ancient times to make a way for the cities and civilized life? Agni desires to devour all the creatures and animals and Sri Krishna and Arjuna fullfill his desire without any mercy in slaying the animals in their warrior like frenzy and they later build Indraprastha over it, Even Ramayana too describes the dreary forests in all their gory and grim details, are the epics very much entangled in those times where clearing vast swathes of forests is a necessity for civilized life🤔?
But how else has any of the city developed? Even the place we are sitting and the cellphone on which we are typing is built

You have beautifully answered on the question asked on The marriage like keeping God in the centre, meeting with life challenges with power of love, supporting each other and serving the divine purpose but these things which you said seems out of our scope. We lack surity, conviction and unclear about our goals. If we don’t have such beautiful ideals so is it wiser to avoid Marriage😐? Please guide.
They are not out of our scope. What is lacking is faith and courage, faith that nothing is impossible once something in us glimpses it

I my free time i keep on scrolling to YouTube Reels. How to stop this time killer addiction🙄? How to gain mastery on this? Please guide.
Have a clear goal for yourself, an ultimate goal so to say, and several mini goals as steps towards it. For example if the goal

No matter how much effort I make to organise our home it ends up in clutter, specially inside the drawers and cupboards, I am trying to change and get a bit organised as lot of time is wasted in looking for things but my son as well my husband are also some one who just dumps things in drawers etc, can you please advise as if I organise one corner the other gets disorganised plus many days I am running around and don’t get time to organise 😥?
So it means you have two children to look after as is common in many Indian households due to strictly defining gender roles, – men

What is ones duty when some elder in place of parent continues to harass you😠 and put you down all the time and manipulates?
Is standing for one self with self respect against this elder person and stopping this happen is against dharma. If some one who’s supposed to

How to know one has realised the Divine? Is it based on any sign or experience? I feel a constant pressure inside my heart and it gives an aspiration, peace and devotion towards the divine. On the other hand the surface nature constantly act by the negative movement. This reason sometime that pressure is vanished. How much time the body will act on the surface nature? It is very unnerving stage for me. The sexual thought, ambition, laziness, repeating the mistake etc spontaneously arises and act upon the body and mind. In this stage what should I do😥? Please show me the right direction.
The deeper one goes into the soul, the more these negative tendencies open up in the surface nature. Everyone has to pass through it with

So, can the psychic 🌟perceive the bliss and peace in that state of psychic sleep, if it is unconscious..?
The psychic is in a state of peace and bliss always as it is its very nature. But since it enters into a state that

Why is it that many parents, especially those in their 50s, often glorify their past struggles, like working long hours just to earn dollars two hundred more, and keep reminding their children of the sacrifices they made to raise them? Why can’t they allow their children to recognize it naturally, instead of constantly seeking acknowledgment or credit and glorifying their struggles
Bringing up a child can be a very challenging task and sometimes it does require quite a bit of sacrifice. But the child has not

Is there any chance of confusions in genuine love💗?
Genuine love? That’s a rarety and a wonder. But even granted that it is there, confusions can always arise since human nature at large is

What is Sri Aurobindo’s and The Mother’s position on path of Devotion💮? As opposed to path of knowledge.
Sri Aurobindo and The Mother describe devotion as the crowning movement of Yoga. Faith, surrender to the Divine Mother, opening to Her through service and

I understand I need to let go of my father now. But before I got to know you and started bothering you with my unending questions, my father was my teacher💖. I had never realized how well read my father was until I started reading Sri Aurobindo’s books about 7 years ago, that too with lot of skepticism.
It is never good to think of those who have passed beyond except when there is genuine gratitude and in a loving way. Memories, attachments,

In one of your answers on marriage you said ” The essence of marriage is to keep God in the Centre while two people walk together hand in hand” what it mean to keep “God in the centre”🤨?
It means to keep the Aspiration for higher things like an Ideal to guide us together, supporting each other’s journey towards the Light and Truth

“The Rishis were scientists of the Spirit and its occult energies and powers and had discovered the ways to come in contact with these forces and seek their active help to make earthly life better in every way.” This is a sentence from one of your answers on 27-10-2024. Can you please elaborate more on those “ways” discovered by our rishis? Were you referring to different types of Yagnas, Mantras, Tantra pooja rituals and Yoga practices🤔?
he poojas, havans, mantras and rituals are the most outwards and not indispensable means. The real means are inner which includes a one-pointed Godward aspiration

Third question, you are going to laugh at, I did! I listen to old Hindi songs when I am cooking/cleaning, old habit. But a song came on from Hathi Mere Sathi 🐘 that Rajesh Khanna sings after K N Singh, kills his elephant Ramu, Nafarat Ki Dunia Ko Chodke Pyar Ki Dunia Me Khush Raho Mere Yar. This was movie, but in real life what would happen to that elephant’s soul?
Most animals do not have a crystallized individual soul. They are generally governed by the soul of the species. That is why they rarely have

What is the concept of hell and heaven? I don’t find any particular reason to have this concept so then they people made this concept🙄?
Heaven and Hell simply mean that there are places in the universe (there is not one but many universes, each with its own Time Space

On which date we should celebrate our birthday, according to English calendar or according to previous calculation as (panchanng) counting of purnima to amabashya etc.🤔?
The solar calendar has certain advantages over the lunar in terms of the date returning cyclically after a fixed number of days. I suppose it