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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask. 

This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Is khandava daha parva basically about the clearing of the forests in the ancient times to make a way for the cities and civilized life? Agni desires to devour all the creatures and animals and Sri Krishna and Arjuna fullfill his desire without any mercy in slaying the animals in their warrior like frenzy and they later build Indraprastha over it, Even Ramayana too describes the dreary forests in all their gory and grim details, are the epics very much entangled in those times where clearing vast swathes of forests is a necessity for civilized life🤔?

But how else has any of the city developed? Even the place we are sitting and the cellphone on which we are typing is built

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You have beautifully answered on the question asked on The marriage like keeping God in the centre, meeting with life challenges with power of love, supporting each other and serving the divine purpose but these things which you said seems out of our scope. We lack surity, conviction and unclear about our goals. If we don’t have such beautiful ideals so is it wiser to avoid Marriage😐? Please guide.

They are not out of our scope. What is lacking is faith and courage, faith that nothing is impossible once something in us glimpses it

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No matter how much effort I make to organise our home it ends up in clutter, specially inside the drawers and cupboards, I am trying to change and get a bit organised as lot of time is wasted in looking for things but my son as well my husband are also some one who just dumps things in drawers etc, can you please advise as if I organise one corner the other gets disorganised plus many days I am running around and don’t get time to organise 😥? 

So it means you have two children to look after as is common in many Indian households due to strictly defining gender roles, – men

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How to know one has realised the Divine? Is it based on any sign or experience? I feel a constant pressure inside my heart and it gives an aspiration, peace and devotion towards the divine. On the other hand the surface nature constantly act by the negative movement. This reason sometime that pressure is vanished. How much time the body will act on the surface nature? It is very unnerving stage for me. The sexual thought, ambition, laziness, repeating the mistake etc spontaneously arises and act upon the body and mind. In this stage what should I do😥? Please show me the right direction.

The deeper one goes into the soul, the more these negative tendencies open up in the surface nature. Everyone has to pass through it with

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Why is it that many parents, especially those in their 50s, often glorify their past struggles, like working long hours just to earn dollars two hundred more, and keep reminding their children of the sacrifices they made to raise them? Why can’t they allow their children to recognize it naturally, instead of constantly seeking acknowledgment or credit and glorifying their struggles

Bringing up a child can be a very challenging task and sometimes it does require quite a bit of sacrifice. But the child has not

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“The Rishis were scientists of the Spirit and its occult energies and powers and had discovered the ways to come in contact with these forces and seek their active help to make earthly life better in every way.” This is a sentence from one of your answers on 27-10-2024. Can you please elaborate more on those “ways” discovered by our rishis? Were you referring to different types of Yagnas, Mantras, Tantra pooja rituals and Yoga practices🤔?

he poojas, havans, mantras and rituals are the most outwards and not indispensable means. The real means are inner which includes a one-pointed Godward aspiration

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Third question, you are going to laugh at, I did! I listen to old Hindi songs when I am cooking/cleaning, old habit. But a song came on from Hathi Mere Sathi 🐘 that Rajesh Khanna sings after K N Singh, kills his elephant Ramu, Nafarat Ki Dunia Ko Chodke Pyar Ki Dunia Me Khush Raho Mere Yar. This was movie, but in real life what would happen to that elephant’s soul?

Most animals do not have a crystallized individual soul. They are generally governed by the soul of the species. That is why they rarely have

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