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We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.ย 

This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

How do we reconcile the Gitaโ€™s teaching to surrender the results of action without obsessing overย Paapย andย Punyaย with the Jain emphasis on sin, guilt, and atonement, and what are Lord Shivaโ€™s (Mahadev) unique teachings that made him so beloved even by theย Asuras? ๐Ÿ”ฑ๐Ÿ๐ŸŒ™๐Ÿ‚โš–๏ธ

Paap and Punya are one among different systems created by the human mind to navigate their life. They are helpful and needed at one step

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How can one break free from the cycle of people-pleasing, emotional blackmail, and the paralyzing fear of hurting others, especially when burdened by family trauma, financial instability, and the loss of a father, while learning to set boundaries and find inner peace without succumbing to depression or isolation? ๐Ÿšซ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿ›‘๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ™๐Ÿปโœจ

I understand that all this has led to a certain degree of suppression and hesitation in your life. What you need is a mentor whom

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If one has always experienced a childhood intimacy with Krishna as a friend and playmate, what does it signify when a natural, gradual shift occurs toward Mahadev (Shiva), and how can this “sneaking in” of a new divine presence be understood as an evolution of the soul’s relationship with the Divine rather than a replacement of the old? ๐Ÿชˆ๐Ÿฆš๐Ÿ„๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ•‰๏ธ๐ŸŒ‘

Sri Krishna and Shiva are two aspects of the One Divine Being. Sri Krishna fills our life with sweetness, beauty and love when he first

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I have desire and fear that covered up the small aspiration to love, and that is why I feel this has happened. But this is not the truth deeper within anybody, and I want to have beautiful feelings and thoughts and to love spontaneously. Everyone has truth and love within them, why should I cover it up with a scared imitation of the actual thing? I think I am not yet that open to Mother and Sri Aurobindo.โœจ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ’“โ™พ๏ธ

We are all made up of different parts that pull in different directions and hence it is quite common to have certain self-contradictory elements within

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Throughout in SAVITRI Sri Aurobindo has used PRONOUNS extensively. To understand him, it is very important to identify which common or proper NOUN he is referring to by the particular PRONOUN.ย  Sometimes it really becomes a a riddle to guess what NOUN he is referring to by that particular PRONOUN.๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ“œ๐Ÿชท๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ

Actually you have got all of them correct by tracing back to the passage and the connecting links.

‘It’ in the passage you mention beginning

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Ever since returning home, it feels as though my time is simply being wasted. I find myself entangled in various matters and feel trapped. Although the remembrance of Mother persists deep within me, I am unable to serve her directly; consequently, it pains me to see how time is slipping away, and I have no idea how long I will remain entangled in all of this. Living this kind of life as a householder is becoming increasingly difficult. Dada, how will I be able to endure in this environment for the long term?๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ›‹๏ธ๐Ÿ›ค๏ธ

That is why I had sent you to the Delhi Ashram but I understand the difficulty of the ties at home. Best would be for

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Lately, I have been going to the gym to do some light exercise and to strengthen my body a bit. However, I have noticed something distinct: alongside my current physical bodyโ€”which is rather slenderโ€”I perceive the presence of another body. This other body feels massive and incredibly powerfulโ€”robust and muscular, yet remarkably light. And is it something I should continue to visualize or imagine in this manner?โšก๐Ÿ”‹๐Ÿ”ฅ

What you describe is a contact with the vital body. It is often felt like that. If it comes to awareness naturally it is fine.

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I want to know how to make a decision for continuing a certain kind of work ( which is not giving any result ) and letting it go โ€ฆ or rather how to draw a fine line between perseverance and letting go ?ย  Sometimes we feel that the Divine does not want us to carry it any longerโ€ฆ Is it our mental perception?ย โš–๏ธ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ”Ž

Outer results, success or failure are no indication of whether one should continue with a work or not. The indication should come from the inmost

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When I observe the people here in the village and in my immediate surroundings, I feel that humanity is not yet ready. They exist in such a low state of consciousnessโ€”spending their entire days preoccupied with the affairs of others, and even deriving pleasure from the suffering of others. Money alone remains the sole center of their existence. Witnessing this, I wonder: will even a cataclysm be enough to awaken them? ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ช๐Ÿ’ฌ๐Ÿ˜๏ธ

What you write about the general condition of humanity is very true. The Mother has foreseen and revealed what future might await this recalcitrant, often

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I had a question about wish fulfilling temples in India. There are many temples in India famous for their capacity to fulfill wishes of their so called devotees for example Tirupati Balaji, Sai Baba of Shirdi, Lalbag Ganesh from Mumbai. Many rich and poor people visit these places and receive whatever they desire. But are these places even Divine in nature? ๐Ÿ›•โ›ฉ๏ธ๐ŸŒ ๐Ÿ€

No God or gods can grant all wishes to each and everyone almost to the demand. Not only will this disturb the cosmic balance but

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Many times in life we are at a crossroad where we need to take some important decisions in our life, and at that point we ask The Mother to guide us. In what way the guidance comes and how can we recognize it without mistaking something as a guidance which may not be coming from The Mother? How can we know what the Divine wants for us i.e. knowing the Divine will?๐Ÿค”๐Ÿงฉ๐ŸŽฒ๐Ÿ›ฃ๏ธ

The condition for receiving the Guidance without mixture from our preferences, opinions and hidden desires is inner Peace. It is only when the noise of

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