We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Is it wrong according to our traditions to choose not to wear sindoor, mangalsutra, or toe rings after marriage? My in-laws keep questioning me, saying that I’m becoming too Westernized😒
These traditions including outer marks to define our identity have a social and symbolic significance rather than moral and spiritual. All societies try to cement

Sir, whether Mother triumphed over malignancy in her way🤔?
I am not aware of any malignancy in her. Yes some of Her children like Pavitra da did have malignancy because, like Her true servitors

Alok da whenever I see The Mother’s photograph I feel she is so happy with me and smiling, now I feel it’s a self importance part of me that thinks like this, so how to look at this as how can Ma be always happy with me😇?
Often we project our own inner state upon the Mother. To feel that the Mother is happy and smiling is because you feel Her with

Sir, is it not time for all the pontiff’s of various peetams in our country to find the fulfillment of their respective path in Sri Aurobindo’s vision and seek to work together for its realisation🤨
The difficulty is that most pontiff and priests use religious doctrines as a way to fulfil ambitions to dominate and control people rather than truly

There is one saying of Sri Aurobindo that “It is by a constant inner growth that one can attain a constant newness and unfailing interest in life. There is no other satisfying way.” I do not understand how by growing inwardly leads to newness, happiness and interest in life🤔? Please enlighten. Thanking you Dada
Imagine staying in a closed room, like a prison. After some time the mind will get tired of sameness and enter into a tamasic dullness

Whether Inconscient and void mean same? Is inconscient a complete zero0️⃣? Void?
Void, whether the Superconscient Void or the Inconscient simply means an inability to report whatever is experienced because there is in it Nothing that corresponds

If a person leaves the education (schooling). Does his will get stronger in his way of life (progress of soul) or the less marks will make him run faster🤨?
School is meant for a certain kind of mental progress. They do not directly help in the spiritual progress but developing the mind helps in

How does one choose or is chosen by one’s Ishta Devata🙏 and why are we attracted to them more than others? For example, I feel more attracted to Krishna since my childhood but I don’t know the reason behind it.
The attraction towards an Ishta Devata itself is a sign that He is calling you. It depends upon the lines along which the soul has

Dear Sir, how/ when do we know if our psychic being 🌟is already discovered or not?
When one has found the psychic being then one no more identifies oneself with the ego-self that is identified with and attached to the body

I was thinking that my sadhana was going well, but am getting desires of having a girlfriend too strongly. I try to surrender those to mother but have strong impulses. Please advise me what to do😥?
Go through the experiences that life brings to you. Sadhana does not depend so much upon these outer things which are besides, natural and normal

Dear sir, How does psychic🌟 tackle the challenge of collective egoism? Example, even though you want to be free from identity, you are forcefully assigned an identity based on your birth in today’s India. And there are gangs out there waiting to spread hatred against various communities. With what attitude would psychic take up and begin solving problems of such nature?
The psychic looks at the truth in the waiting behind the appearances. It discovers this truth and plucks it out from its folds of secrecy.

Had a bad dream yesterday a very big man was attacking me and I could not do anything 😭
Yes my dearest these are again fears, fear of being bullied by stronger people who are big. It is however good to …

My sister has OCD. I want to get her treated by yogic methods instead of modern psychiatry, but she isn’t spirituality inclined. How to treat this disorder😥?
It is difficult to say anything definitively because each one is different. One can always combine spiritual methods and take the help of modern medicine

Is there any significance behind bursting crackers during Diwali🪔?
Deepawali, as the name itself suggests was marked by the lighting of lamps on the dark night (new moon) of karthik or the Karthik Amavasya.

Alok da, I had a dream where I was pregnant, and I was going for a very minor, not really required kind of a surgery. My mom is with me to assist. And after the surgery, my baby bump is lost and when I ask my mother she says coolly that I fell down and the child got aborted. And she blames me for falling down. I am very angry and guilty that I didn’t call Mother consciously during the surgery and it was my unconsciousness ad carelessness due to which the child got lost. And I woke up almost crying🥲.
Does it mean something? But in reality, I’m on the Mother’s path and i have no idea of getting married or having a child.
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Alok da , Throughout our two epics the proud heros make heroic proclamations on how they will not yield to fate, how they will challenge the fate with their will, manhood and courage, they display such a dynamism of self will and resoluteness in such moments and even Savitri’ s tale is about challenging fate but we have also this disposition towards surrender, of telling the mother let thy will be done. Is there any really a bit of conflict between both these standpoints? If my will and desire isn’t exactly in tune with the Mother’s will can I be stubborn like an angry child that I will rather die fighting for it rather than accept the fact that this might not be the Mother’s will🤨?
Here we have to first understand that the Divine Will does not operate freely in the world. If it did so the world would be

Sir, can you give your opinion on the peter heeh’s biography on Sri Aurobindo? was it really written from authenticated sources of ashram archive?
Much water has flown since the book came out. I have almost written a book on my criticism of the book. Several other acclaimed scholars

How do you deal with hostile people at workplace when they have bad intent and jealousies and it is disturbing my peace of mind and I am unable to focus on the goal😥?
One should never try to judge or get into the consciousness of other people as to what they are feeling and thinking etc. It is