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Life Problems And Psychological Difficulties

What if the desire to hold on — the attachment — isn’t rooted in pride or the need to show ownership, but rather in a deep sense of care? A quiet protectiveness, born not from materialism, but from love. What if it’s not about clinging to possessions, but about holding close the people who matter most — not out of selfishness, but from the fear of loss?🤔🌼✨[…]

February 13, 2026

Yes, attachment and care are not necessarily a negative movement. They are indeed a form of Sattwic love which is certainly higher than the gross

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Alok da, in one of your talks, you mentioned how sexual activity is interrelated with ageing, but couldn’t elaborate upon it because the subject matter for the talk is different and in another talk, you’ve briefly said that you wouldn’t recommend having more than one kid in today’s times. 😊🙏🏻🏵️[…]

February 12, 2026

The sexual potency in terms of erection, sperm count and intercourse have all been coming down on an average especially in the Western World leading

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I don’t want to get married, but my mother is insisting that I get married, and I am unable to explain why I don’t want to get married. I don’t have a reason to give; it’s just that I don’t feel like being married. I am praying to the Lord that there may be no matches, as they see the Jataka. But I fear that if someone’s Jataka matches mine, then what should I do? 😥🌹🧑🏻‍🤝‍👩🏻

February 11, 2026

Generally parents insist on their children’s marraige because they feel how will their child manage when they are away. It is partly a habitual thought,

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One of your answers about Marriage is that it is for going together for Higher Consciousness and for Sadhana. Each one respect each other. After 23 years of marriage, if the husband’s aim is only to lead an ordinary life and, in each step, humiliate and disrespect the wife, then what will the wife do? 😣🧑🏻‍🤝‍👩🏻🌼[…]

February 6, 2026

It is for this reason that the ego has been given to man, to ensure that the self-development of the individual is not stifled or

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I sometimes feel deep guilt or sadness about my past relationships. A few men in my life chose not to marry after our relationships ended and have said that they would only have married me. I am now happily married to someone else, but I sometimes wonder whether my presence in their lives prevented them from moving on, finding love, or living life fully. I am no longer in contact with them, but I hear these things through mutual friends. 😥🌹[…]

January 29, 2026

The decision to get married or live with someone is a serious one, especially marraige. It cannot be taken based on promises made during a

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I’m under a lot of pressure to get married. I feel very, very, very lost. My parents have passed on a few contacts, and I have been talking to those guys. There is nothing wrong with these guys – in fact, they’re quite kind, mature, understanding and qualified, and one of them has a good depth of thought process and they are very interested in me. 🧑🏻‍🤝‍👩🏻🌹😫[…]

January 29, 2026

I think you are mixing several things, especially two very different things. The first and most important is what you should do with your life.

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