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Life Problems And Psychological Difficulties

I am grateful for your guidance in this situation. Alok da, I feel that remaining silent, offering the hurt to the Divine, and praying for peace within myself and others would be easier for me.ย ย But I have one doubt: what if the other person interprets my silence as weakness and continues to hurt or insult me? ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ๐Ÿ›ก๏ธ๐ŸŒฟ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป[…]

Those who indulge in hurting others are already hurtling downwards. They will continue to do what they are habituated to doing. Leave them to their

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While Motherโ€™s grace helped me navigate the initial grief, daily chest stiffness, recurring nightmares of cardiac arrest, and distorted dreams of losing family have now become deeply distressing. In waking life, I am exhausted by persistent intrusive thoughts urging me to give up, accompanied by heavy self-criticism whenever I feel misaligned with my spiritual path. ๐ŸŒ‘๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ™[…]

This seems to be a wave of depression that is trying to catch you, partly because of the loneliness as you don’t seem to have

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I faced a question & remained silent because I couldn’t answer. My sister-in-law (elder brother’s wife) while taking dinner she told me a ghost once occupied her by force in the night. I told her where ever mother’s photograph is there, there is no chance to enter any (ghost) bhut, pret, pisach to the house. ๐Ÿ•ฏ๏ธ๐Ÿ›ก๏ธ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ™[…]

There are lot of false assumptions here.

An outwardly healthy person can surely have low Hemoglobin. There are plenty of patients like that. Low hemoglobin

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I am 41, unmarried, and dealing with schizophrenia, but I struggle deeply with an ongoing habit of watching lesbian pornography for brief moments once or twice a week. Fully aware that this lower impulse contradicts the teachings of Sri Aurobindo and the Mother, I fear falling into an asuric nature like Virochana or Shankhachuda. ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ๐Ÿ’ช๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ™[…]

I understand your difficulty which grips many persons. It takes time but with a persistent will and faith, especially opening yourself to the Mother’s Grace

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My parents both have contracted viral swine flu. They are both very old: 74, 82. I am in the US, and they are in India. At this age, I feel guilty about not being there to take care of them. At this age, they have gotten a bit more obstinate than usual and it’s tough to negotiate with them on the phone. ๐Ÿ‘ต๐Ÿ‘ด๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ™ [โ€ฆ]

It is not uncommon that children move to far and distant places for better financial and professional prospects. It is part of the general social

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Having trained, I offer workshops and Bach flower remedies to help people overcome emotional distress like anxiety and fear. While software engineering has provided practical security, healing brings me far deeper fulfillment, and seeing meaningful results with clients has inspired me to consider pursuing this path full-time.๐ŸŒผ๐Ÿ’š[…]

Yes healing is a wonderful work, inwardly very rewarding. While one needs to charge to sustain oneself it works best if it is not our

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