Life Problems And Psychological Difficulties Archives

Yes love, like most things in our life is fed by certain stereotypes and social constructs. Hence it suffers deformation and distortion like everything else.

I don’t know how, but in my mind, I am stuck on the fact that the growth of the Soul will invite newer challenges, and I really don’t have the strength to go through any challenges at the moment. Is seeking happiness the same as wanting the pain to stop? I’m not sure that I can tell the difference. 😣🥀❤️‍🔥🍃

May 25, 2026

Challenges are bound to come in life. It is part of the evolutionary programming. The soul helps us to navigate through these challenges with much

I want to grow on the path of Integral Yoga. I deeply wish to change myself and transform my Consciousness, but I find it difficult to do so. I often decide to wake up early at 5:30 AM, yet my body resists. Even if I manage to get out of bed, I soon find myself going back to sleep.🧘✨🪷🧩[…]

May 24, 2026

Waking up in the morning is not the most important thing though it is helpful to align one’s waking up with the sunrise. What is

Sir, the main problem with depressive medicines is that they make the body and mind always sleepy, dull and lethargic. To be honest, I don’t actually know as to how and where to progress on the Spiritual path and in Studies. Even the simplest of things, I am finding it difficult to face off. Really don’t know what to do ahead.🌧️🧑‍⚕️💊🫠

May 24, 2026

This was true of earlier medicines. But now there are much safer medicines with fewer side effects if any especially of drowsiness. There is nothing

If someone has to undergo radio or chemotherapy because of Cancer he might have some side effects because also the good cells are hit. Is there a way – by Meditation, a Mantra, or Calling the Divine Force – to protect the good cells?🎗️🧬🙏🏻💊💉

May 24, 2026

Though nowadays the treatment is quite targeted and the side effects are relatively less, still they can be further minimized by creating a zone of

What is your take on trauma bonding? I see few talking about how difficult there life has been and how they were neglected. Not denying the trauma one has gone through.. but is there a possibility they are magnifying it and accepting this it for others gratification and attention?? Teens doing that is also worrying. What do you think of this?🤷‍♂️💬😶‍🌫️❓

May 24, 2026

Human beings almost invariably look at life from the lens of ignorance. They act and react based on their limited understanding and enter into a

Life feels very hard Alok da. I often feel that nothing has amounted. much in any aspect of my life. Though I keep trying, disappointments. are almost the routine. As you can imagine, I am feeling exhausted. with all that pushing, all the series of frustrations. I don’t expect. life to be smooth, but it feels incredibly bumpy (something that I am reminded of also when I see most of the people around me, such as my peers, my relatives, my colleagues, my friends)⛈️🔄🧱🪫

May 24, 2026

She is not only watching you but carrying you. How else are you able to navigate through it despite the challenges? However it is important

I made a mistake in my life, and by the time I realised that I shouldnt have done that though i knew that somewhere i am not being loyal to the person i am with and i was fully drawn into my desires …at one fine day everything got burnt . I couldn’t save anything, so I moved forward slowly, resting in Mother’s lap and offering everything I had done to everyone and myself. After two years, I made another mistake… and today I am feeling deep fear. While offering things to Mother, I keep thinking how could I make the same kind of mistake again? 🚶‍♂️➔🕳️➔😮‍💨

May 24, 2026

The Divine does not see things as humans do. What we call as mistakes and errors are part of His plan to help us grow

In relationships we often come across people who are manipulative, who project something a faded in front of you . Sometimes there is a feeling of deep resentment for such people. Mentally one knows that they are also a form of the divine in their own journey, but how to open your heart , develop love and respect??🎭🐍🗣️🌀

May 24, 2026

We should not concern ourselves with what others think and do. It is their karma so to say and, it brings its own consequences in

I am completely unemployed and when I am trying to study sincerely, I can’t do it. And I am depressed looking back on those 4 years which I have wested mindlessly doing nothing. Also, as I made no progress and wasted my time and energy in everything except study, now I became mentally and physically very weak. As I was always inclined to the Mother and Sri Aurobindo and quite involved in our branch’s activity, I don’t know how it has happened with me. Though I know that I am the only one responsible for this situation.💼❌🌧️🪫😮‍💨

May 24, 2026

The solution is actually very simple. Analysing why it happened, lamenting about the wasted time, looking back surely won’t help. If anything it will only

Sir are there healing kriyas and yoga techniques in Sri Aurobindo ashram to help people overcome these challenges. Depression and migraine and extreme loneliness and sadness is something I am battling for the last 5-6 years intensely but not have been able to get out of even with medications.🧘⚡🌀❤️‍🩹

May 24, 2026

The Ashram is primarily meant for a higher spiritual evolution. There are no kriyas etc that are taught to overcome these problems. What is adviced

Sir how do we get clarity and guidance from the mother for our worries and depression. What is that step by step method of proper prayer to her? Also how to get rid of fear and worries related to career and financial aspect of life? Will the mother take care of us if we devote to her. I have actually almost run out of all my savings in learning different types of meditation techniques, yagya participation and books of various spiritual organisation across India. But still I have not got any proper clarity as to which is that one path or guru whom should I follow. And I still fear as to where my spiritual journey is heading..🌧️🌀🧠🪫😰

May 24, 2026

Spiritual journey is not undertaken to cure depression, anxiety or getting material success or for that matter anything of the worldly nature. One can pray

My question is why amongst the all methods only this most simple imagination that you have suggested worked? Sir, I listened to one of your talk on getting rid of lower movements, I have been facing the same problem in a big way, amongst the all is the sexual lust, it the single most and the worst and hardest thing to get rid of, just like a man sweeps his room and all the corner but the dust and pollution is in the environment, so I also dealing with it by different methods but these methods were not working properly with me,..🌪️ 🌊🕷️ 🕸️🌋

May 24, 2026

It is always the Grace that works when the time comes and it can use any means and methods, including the most seemingly paradoxical for

Over the past decade I have faced far too many personal & professional failures. Nothing I seek is seeking me, in fact its getting repelled from me the moment I start working towards it. I’m loosing my faith in the world, I see myself alienating from almost everyone. I’m a well meaning, truthful and soul curious person. What’s happening to me? Is this a sign for me to leave the material world?📉🤦‍♂️🔄❌✍️

May 24, 2026

It is the moment to reckon the truth that you are perhaps not marked for the things that you are seeking in ignorance. It is

Actually I am not able to control myself from keeping physical relation with my wife. Normally in average once in a week we are keeping relationship. Is it not good and obstacle for sadhana? Sometime I am feeling guilty but unable to control. Every time I think it will be last, but …

May 24, 2026

It takes time, sometimes quite a long time, decades to completely master the sexual impulse that is rooted so deeply into the physical-biological parts. Living