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However, yesterday I engaged in unnecessary talk with my colleague (who was bragging about her achievements), which triggered jealousy in me and I said something

I am a Devotee of Mother and Sri Aurobindo. But I feel my life is stuck. Every now and then, I am faced with severe problems, either with my family members or with myself. Nowhere can I find peace with all my family members. 😩👨🏻‍👩🏻‍👧🏻‍👦🏻💔🦋🌸[…]

July 15, 2026

The Mother and Sri Aurobindo have opened for us the sunlit path which is a path of peace and joy. It is when we do

The previous structures of my life continue to collapse. Our family business has now closed, my house is for sale and my husband has asked for a separation. And through all the heartbreak, shocks and crises, I feel closer and closer to The Mother and the Divine presence. ❤️‍🩹☺️🙏🏻🪷[…]

July 15, 2026

I can understand the difficult situation in your life and send my prayers. Yes, sometimes this happens because something better has been planned for us

Should we always be calm to other people even if they scold us or deceive us? 🙄🕊️🌼

July 15, 2026

Remaining calm conserves and focuses one’s energies. To remain calm is to grow strong. If practiced well, calm has a great effect on the other

I am a woman entering into my 30s. Since a small kid, I remember growing up among mostly male cousins. So much so that I used to be a tomboy. I grew up among female classmates and have had mostly female friendships. 👩🏼❤️‍🔥🌼[…]

July 14, 2026

Being a Tomboy or experiencing protective feelings as well as comparisions with other women does not suggest that one is a lesbian or a bisexual.

After a month of abstaining from tobacco, I again tried it just out of curiosity, three times. After doing so, I felt intense repulsion from the system, especially the physical body. 🚬🤧😊❤️‍🔥🌼[…]

July 13, 2026

Yes it is a Grace indeed and there is no need to challenge or resist the Grace by trying it again.

I have recently discovered that fear is the worst vice I have. I think it is my shadow. In my daily life, I don’t run away from challenges, but sometimes, due to fear and anxiety, I am not able to do my work as well as possible. 😟🌸🦋[…]

July 13, 2026

Fear stems from the sense of loneliness, the extreme sense of loneliness that comes when one feels due to separation from the Divine. Its antidotes

Dear Sir, I am currently in a bad situation. It has given me mental stress, anxiety, etc. It is not something major, it is usual household problems and an alcoholic father, though I am facing the problem like head-on, like a warrior. 💔🍷😣❤️‍🔥🌸[…]

July 12, 2026

Alcohol of course is no option for anyone. Medication can be taken if it helps you maintain a calmer state. It will not come in

Could you please guide me on the root of fear and insecurity? I notice that even in small situations, such as meeting my boss or speaking to someone in authority, I become nervous, fearful, and lack confidence. 😥👥🌸🦋[…]

July 11, 2026

Root of fear and insecurity is the instinct of self-preservation in the ego.

With the steady practice of surrender to the Divine and trust

Dear Alok da, I read your answer recently about how to know that someone is possessed by Hostile Forces. My question is in that context. I have recently moved to a new place where we were staying in the flat provided by the company for two months. 😫💔🌸🦋[…]

July 10, 2026

From the description it does seem like a hostile force taking hold of some subconscious angers and frustrations and erupting to the surface. It is

I don’t know if I was not that much aware of my jealousy or now my jealousy has increased because I am not at all in a good state, or hidden jealousy is now being revealed to me….I don’t know… because I am trying to do Naam japa. ☹️🙏🏻🌼🦋[…]

July 9, 2026

These things (lust, jealousy, fear, anger etc) do rise when there is a pressure upon our nature for the change. They especially rise up when

Kindly confirm if I should not hold a grudge against anyone because of the following reasons: 1) There is none to hate, as everything is the Divine, Who is our infinite Lover, and smiles at me behind the masks of my so-called enemy. 🫂😊🪷🦋[…]

July 6, 2026

Absolutely true and the right attitude and the right understanding towards people.

My Brother, The Forms you had created for our safety have been dissolved by me. I don’t know whether you told me to do so or I took it wrongly for any specific reason or not. How will those forms be recreated, or will we get a better option? Please do something; we are in pain and suffering. 😢🙏🏻🪷❤️‍🩹

July 5, 2026

Pray to the Mother with complete faith and surrender.

Take Her Name, Naamjapa, inwardly as much as you can.

Read Savitri loudly everyday.

Me and My family have been facing Black Magic for the last 15 years. We have tried many things but have failed. For the last 4 months, I have been constantly facing fear of death almost every time, depression, etc. What to do? 🔮🌀😥🙏🏻🦋

July 4, 2026

Black magic has an effect if you believe in it. No magic or adverse force can harm someone who has absolute faith in God and

I tell them to pray. Doctors are not Gods. There is a power above Doctors that can also change the course of Destiny, but they don’t believe that prayer has such a power. People worship God, but they don’t believe that He/She is Almighty, who can do anything, even miracles. They are totally dependent on Doctors. 🩺🧑🏼‍⚕️🙄🙏🏼🌸

June 30, 2026

I know. Most often man looks for immediate short term gains because of a narrow perspective. That is what ignorance is. The outward, the sensible

I would like to know how being an only child or having siblings helps in our Spiritual growth. Since I am an only child, I have been judged for it before. A teacher once told me that I was probably spoiled because I am an only child, which is not true. 🌱👦🏼👨🏻‍👩🏻‍👧🏻‍👦🏻🌼[…]

June 29, 2026

Don’t listen to these self-styled psychologists. The main advantage of having a sibling is that one learns sharing at home itself. But the same lesson

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