AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER

Life Problems And Psychological Difficulties

I don’t know how to deal with my nature. I am the kind of person who doesnā€™t react to small things like minor fights or disrespect. I either let them go or ignore them and get back to normal within 5ā€“10 minutes or, at most, 1ā€“2 hours. But when someone says “No” to me, it deeply hurts my ego, like very deeply. I start overthinking, connecting past events, and assuming their intentions were wrong. This makes small issues much bigger, and sometimes I end up risking my relationships or career because of itšŸ˜„.

It is not easy to change one’s nature. Becoming conscious of the difficulty is of course the first step. Next, one has to persistently apply

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We have read that supreme has given the sanctions to hostile forces to at certain extent. Through difficult circumstances and hostile forces intervention also things take a certain turn and Some people utilizes this opportunity and turns towards Divine. But certain people get so much demotivated and helpless they commit Suicide. Don’t you think in such scenario where man is ignorant these sanction to this forces is become obstacle for his progress or its high consequence of this leverage to the hostile force?

It is true that the hostile forces create a himalaya of difficulties where they are supposed to obstruct by a hill between our aspiration and

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Recently I had a series of losses of my personal belongings. I lost a golden symbol of mother I had, then someone stole my audio speaker, and I nearly lost my wallet. On the 5th of December, one man made an observation about me: he said ā€œyour eyes are moving too fast. Your breathing is too shallow. You are likely to attract accidents šŸ˜±in such a state. You have to learn to breath deeplyā€. This made me think. The very next day I had a bad injury after which I will require surgery. For the last 4 days, Iā€™ve been experimenting with some light pranayama ā€” 20 repetitions of Anulom Vilom in the morning and evening. Iā€™ve heard that pranayama can be dangerous unless it is practiced carefully. Can you explain why it is said that pranayama can be dangerous, as well as what is the best way to safely learn it? If you have any comments about my experience narrated at the beginning of this message, Iā€™d like to hear them.

The losses of this kind are due to a lack of concentration, an inattention or unconsciousness in certain aspects of nature. The solution is to

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When I fail to get the respect I think I deserve from others, I have a tendency of protecting my ego by putting them down in my mind. The reason for doing so is that I believe it is important for me to have a healthy self-esteem. Perhaps this is also a reaction driven by an inferiority complex of some kind instilled in me by my highly critical and judgemental fatheršŸ˜Ŗ. How do I maintain a healthy self-esteem in life? Iā€™ve been trying to practice positive affirmations about myself (something fairly popular in todayā€™s pop psychology).

Yes, the attitude of parents, especially critical remarks can have a devastating effect on children. It can injure self-esteem greatly which may lead to a

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I have been reading the books of the Mother for quite some time now, but I still find it challenging to apply her teachings in my daily life. I also continue to feel nervous when speaking in front of people, often finding myself trapped in the web of nervousness. I’m deeply disappointed that, despite all my efforts and reading, I havenā€™t been able to bring even the slightest change to my naturešŸ˜„.

Changing human nature is never an easy task. One has to be patient and persevering. There is however a secret and it is not to

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My husband had a habit of trading in the stock market, which caused us to lose a lot of money earlier. We worked hard to pay off the debts, but I feel he has started trading again. He also pretends to go to the office, but HR confirmed he hasnā€™t been coming. Whenever I try to talk to him, we end up fighting, and he doesnā€™t give me clear answersšŸ˜Ŗ.

It is an addiction, an obsession so to say and hence very difficult to get rid of unless there is a sincere will to get

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How does one let go of things from the pastšŸ˜«? Things that didnā€™t work out the way we would have ā€œhopedā€, people we didnā€™t get to know well that maybe we wanted to, or regrets about actions that we would have taken differently today?And how does one stop daydreams or indulging in fantasies that do not have any basis? Iā€™m stuck on an idea of someone from the past and cannot get them out of my head. I offer my feelings up to the Mother and just let it beā€¦ is that the right approach?

First thing that we need to understand is that the ‘mistakes’ that happened and yet may happen are not because there is something bad in

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