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Life Problems And Psychological Difficulties

One of your answers about Marriage is that it is for going together for Higher Consciousness and for Sadhana. Each one respect each other.Β After 23 years of marriage, if the husband’s aim is only to lead an ordinary life and, in each step, humiliate and disrespect the wife, then what will the wife do? πŸ˜£πŸ§‘πŸ»β€πŸ€β€πŸ‘©πŸ»πŸŒΌ[…]

It is for this reason that the ego has been given to man, to ensure that the self-development of the individual is not stifled or

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I sometimes feel deep guilt or sadness about my past relationships. A few men in my life chose not to marry after our relationships ended and have said that they would only have married me. I am now happily married to someone else, but I sometimes wonder whether my presence in their lives prevented them from moving on, finding love, or living life fully. I am no longer in contact with them, but I hear these things through mutual friends. πŸ˜₯🌹[…]

The decision to get married or live with someone is a serious one, especially marraige. It cannot be taken based on promises made during a

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I’m under a lot of pressure to get married. I feel very, very, very lost. My parents have passed on a few contacts, and I have been talking to those guys. There is nothing wrong with these guys – in fact, they’re quite kind, mature, understanding and qualified, and one of them has a good depth of thought process and they are very interested in me. πŸ§‘πŸ»β€πŸ€β€πŸ‘©πŸ»πŸŒΉπŸ˜«[…]

I think you are mixing several things, especially two very different things. The first and most important is what you should do with your life.

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I am walking through whatever life is bringing to me. But still, I am unable to find or understand the Purpose, the Goal, or the True Aim of my life. I keep offering all of this to The Mother, yet I wonder whether I am so unconscious, so ignorant, carrying so many impurities and tendencies that are far from the Divine? πŸ™„πŸŒ»πŸ¦‹[…]

It is because we are not made up of one piece. There are different parts in us, some open to Her, others half open, yet

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