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Life Problems And Psychological Difficulties

Dada, how to stop thinking? I mean, continuous thoughts are coming and going regarding useless things. Sri Aurobindo has said we have to watch thoughts and not attach any importance to them, but how should we do that? Or how to calm our minds and think about our Master’s only?๐ŸŒŠ๐ŸŒช๏ธ๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿง 

While stopping of thoughts completely is not an easy thing, it is very much possible to direct the flow consciously towards an object. Thus, you

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Sometimes I think that I wish I had done this, or I wish I hadnโ€™t done that. If the circumstances had been different, maybe everything would have been different. I always feel a sense of guilt. Even my mother tells me that if I had done this or not done that, my life would have been different. I am exhausted from carrying this guilt. How can I free myself from it?๐Ÿ˜”โ›“๏ธ๐Ÿซฅ๐ŸŒง๏ธ

Every sensitive person passes through this critical self-evaluation at some point or the other. The simplest way to handle this is to understand that man

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I heard in a video that negative and hostile forces give suggestions and people act accordingly, then these forces bring guilt which makes the situation worse, so my question is how to convince myself to free myself from this guil? How to get rid of the guilt? Please guide me on this subject.๐ŸŒ‘๐Ÿ’จ๐Ÿ•ฏ๏ธ๐Ÿ‘น๐Ÿ’ฅ

Yes, the progressive supramental manifestation is bound to influence all earthly life including the most material. It is a new principle or power that has

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I’ve been going to our family business, for the past five days. One day, my father gave me some parts with a friend so I could earn some money. But since giving them to me, my younger brother, my father, and my mother have told me four times each not to tell anyone that they’ve given you these parts. Your partner will see them and sell them. But this is stifling me. How are you complicating such a simple matter so much? ๐Ÿ’ผโšก๐Ÿ’ฅ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ

You are quite right in understanding the truth behind society and all the hypocrisy it involves. Any inwardly developed and sensitive individual would feel stifled.

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I don’t know which category I may be.ย Definitely not among fully asuric anti Divine elements.ย May be by my Guru’s Grace, I will get Moksha, so no coming back.ย Or may be doing Supramental yoga, but I am afraid of the pain and suffering.ย So may be satisfied with perfect humanity.ย Don’t know,ย It’s all His aspirations and His Sankalp in my name to be fulfilled by Him only๐Ÿ‘๏ธโŒ๐ŸŒซ๏ธโ›“๏ธ

Yes, the thoughts and feelings of our outer personality, that which we ignorantly call ourselves, hardly matters. It is the Divine Will concealed deep within

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Sir, inside me there is a strong desire for something. Within three days again those desires comes and I fulfill it that make me feel bad. Why I fulfilled this desire? This and that comes to the mind. But after fulfillment of desire, I think if it will come again, I will not fulfilled. Still it comes within 3 days I don’t want to fulfill still I fulfill it. Sir , what should be done? How to get rid of it which makes me do the things which I don’t want?๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ’Ž๐Ÿ›๏ธ๐Ÿš—

Desires are quite natural at your age, especially sexual desires. They are very tenacious and tend to return in a never ending cycle because there

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As if I am getting defeated. But, unable to express to anyone expect to The Mother. I cry for these situations infront of her. That, whether my decision to do job is wrong or What does she has planned for me? Dada, I hope I am able to convey my inner state to you. Situations in my working field are crushing me from inside to digest the vibrations. Please ask Mother to Guide me. I don’t want to be get defeated before the situations. I am unable to repair myself.ย ๐Ÿข๐Ÿ’ผ๐Ÿ’ป๐Ÿ“„

I fully understand your situation. Leaving the work is no solution. You will find the same situation one way or the other everywhere unless you

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If someone suffers from dementia and then dies, does their mental consciousness not have a chance to be integrated into their psychic being? Secondly, would they be stripped of the ability to have a conscious death, once they pass from the body into the different sheaths before entering into the soul realm? What is death like for someone with dementia?๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿง โœจ๐Ÿ‚โณ

Conscious death and integrating the mind with the psychic being are rare even for those whose mental faculties are intact during death.

Dementia however

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Sir, my right hand is getting writing cramp while writing bahut ghasit ghasit k likhna padta hai don’t know what has happened. Whom to pray? how to pray? Also concepts retain nahi ho raha hai while studying becoz of depression. Plzz help me out in this situation. I am cluelessย ๐Ÿ“–โœ๏ธ๐ŸŒซ๏ธโ˜๏ธ

I can only speak of generalities because i don’t undertake personal guidance or counselling. What I can say is that wanting to get rid of

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