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Life Problems And Psychological Difficulties

I thought I had changed my past impure self a little bit; I thought I had become a little better human… but again, something happened and I feel I failed more miserably than before…. I have not changed at all…. I think I am worse… It is heartbreaking to know that I am just the same person as before…. ๐ŸŒฑ๐ŸŒ…๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

The fact that you want to change is itself a sign that you have changed! This is how the change takes place. In the beginning

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Dada I want to write this letter to The Mother and Sri Aurobindo through you. I shared with you the problem of watching porn and masturbation. I lost interest of watching that vulgar thing and masturbation after that because of their grace. But today after watching nasty video not sexual video but very nasty video and I again made blunder of masturbation. But dada I am facing another difficulty that I cannot concentrate on work and after getting rid of porn due to their grace in 2025 that there are vulgar impure sexual thoughts constantly due to excessive viewing porn in early days.

However big or even seemingly impossible the difficulties, one can get rid of it all if one can hold through the inevitability struggle with complete

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After I wrote to you, since then Mother has taken away the sting and bitterness and recoil I was feeling every time I thought about the incident. I will try to do what you say, but I feel ill-equipped to teach her these values of resilience and detachment when I struggle so much with them. It’s like the blind leading the blind. ๐ŸŒผ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป […]

This is just the right way, to recognise what needs to change and then offer them to Her with the aspiration for the needed change,

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When something is happening at a physical level out of the blue, how do I know it is something from within me or absorbed from outside?ย When I was in Pondicherry, I was in such a blissful state. same happens when I am in Vancouver.ย But in Toronto, I go out(for a walk or any work) in a beautiful, blissful state and after coming back home, most of the times I donโ€™t feel the same. ๐Ÿ›ก๏ธ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ […]

The experiences of life, practically all of them are, in their last analysis, subject dependent. The same place, environment, situation can trigger different kinds, often

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For the last two years, I have constantly felt fearful about my family members’ health. I keep worrying that if something happens to them, what will I do? At the same time, I also feel fearful about my own health, wondering what my family members would do if something happened to me. ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป […]

The fact that your parents went through the challenges successfully should bring faith rather than fear. Fear is an absence of faith. Ask for faith

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