We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Ā
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Alok da, when Sri Aurobindo came back form England his father had died but did he meet his mother after coming back š¤?
Yes. But she was in very poor psychological health.

Because as soon as I started reading The Garud Puran, the way it describes the hell, and how Yamadoots take souls thru the hell, I could not read anymore, because that is not the way my understanding has formed after my other readings. Yes, we have to resolve our Karmas, but the way Garud Puran describes it, I was not sure those Souls will learn anything from it, may be they will learn that what I did was wrong, and I should not do it again. But that is not resolving Karma, the wronged sides totally left out. But then again, I did not read further as I didn’t agree with it, may be it mentions the wronged side later onš¤Ø.
Puranas are not considered as supreme authorities. They belong to the class of Scriptures called Smriti. The authentic scriptures are the Vedas, Upanishads, Gita. They

I have a question about my father that Iāve been meaning to ask since he passed away some months back. Today, in a meditation on the psychic presence within, I saw him with his usual wide smile. I have been wondering how he is and where he is as he passed away in great pain and not sure how the passing was for him since he refused to discuss matters of the afterlife that I tried to bring up with him to prepare him. He was such a vital personality that I canāt imagine heās no more with us. Is this a sign that he heās now in the psychic worlds? I wanted to know how his life review was for his soul and if he was at peace with his passing as he was a real karmayogi. Iām still coming to terms with his passing in my human way.Ā I have also prayed so much for him and put him in Motherās arms. Was she with him when he passed over? Is there any message from him to me?š
His smiling appearance while meditating upon the heart centre indicates that he is safe and happy, still inwardly connected to you through the deeper heart,

I want to understand a few things from the following paragraphs from the the book Life Divine : Delight of Existence : The problem. I have understood Sri Aurobindo’s concept of ethical way of thinking of humans in this chapter but the below points are not clearš«¤.
It means first that there is a delight of existence that is hidden in the movement of creation itself (the becoming). It is there hidden

When I have sudden stomach ache, I startĀ praying to the mother.Ā How does Maa helps us in our illnessš£?
The Mother can help in several ways. If you are open and receptive, full of faith and trust in Her Force can directly intervene and

Alok da, How can someone born in North Korea or in Afghanistan and all their life they have seenĀ horrible things can believe in Divine? For us over here life as been beautiful and thus we get to see divine all aroundš ..
Who knows, perhaps confronted with the terror and the horror some of them may be feeling quite disgusted and searching for answers. They may well

How can we purify ambition? I feel driven to be very ambitious. But I know it will make me a selfish, ugly person and it is not something wise to do. I want to know how I can direct the energies in the right direction. What is a step by step method so that I don’t lose the motivationš¤Ø?
No need to turn away from anything. Selfishness has nothing to do with achievements and ambition. The danger of ambition is pride and vanity or

I have a question about effort. What does it mean when we wish for something very much and put a lot of effort into it but we fail? For example, as a child I wanted to grow tall and tried all sorts of things to grow taller. Then during one medical checkup the doctor told me that I will not be able to grow taller. I was in denial and I still kept trying. Ultimately the doctor was right and I felt very sad. Thankfully now I’m ok with it but I just want to know why this happens. Is it the will of the Divine or does he want us to persevere? Also how can we know when to persevere and when to quitš„?Ā
When efforts fail as they do fail sometimes it is to help us grow in strength and patience, perseverance, fortitude, even a deeper faith and

Integrity to soul vs integrity to somebody else. I feel itās a fine line and vulnerable to misuse in the name of soul integrity. But supposing somebody is following a higher call of the soul which comprises integrity to somebody else resulting in having to hide, lie, conceal etc. One side – there is following the true need – but does not lying, concealing etc. lower the consciousness ? Should we not always speak truth, be honest š«¤? Supposing the person youāve lied to comes to find out – will that not results in a deep hurt and scars? Where is the line between selfishness and following a higher call and need ?
Absolutely true. Lying, deception etc are as far from the true soul life as earth from the heaven. It is also true that all scriptures

I have contacted a Magazine,Ā have asked for some writing work,Ā Writing Blog āļøon any topic related to resurgence of India. How can I do this work perfectly.Ā What topics should I choose.Ā I know you may say I should first learn and study then start these kind of works. But I want to try once. Hope you understand..
Well one should first do a deep study of what India is and stands for lest one does more harm through half baked ideas as

I can’t deal with academics. I’m very weakš„.
Not all are meant for academics. It is not about being weak or anything like that. It is a question of interest and the natural

To what extent one should let the relationship affect our life.Ā What should be the boundary of letting another ones opinions and perception about life affect us.Ā Is it okay to change my opinions for hersš¤.
The basis of relationship is love. And love is about acceptance rather than wanting to change the one whom we love. Yet it is also

I am little confuse about rules for gruhatasram?Ā
The rules of grihasthasram were made to teach and train the vital consciousness of man that is full of desires to learn self-mastery in the

1. What happens when someone jumps from one relationship to another without properly informing their partnerš£?
It debases the consciousness if lying and deciet are involved. Otherwise it generally leads to confusion and comparisons followed by a new stability…

What should we learn from a failed relationship, and what are the key insights to take away�
There is no single cause and hence no single lesson. But a general lesson to learn is that human beings live in a colossal ignorance.

How should we live our life, especially in the modern world and in generalš¤?
Stay rooted within in your own truth. Be clear about your ultimate aim and the steps that will take you towards it. Be conscious of

At times (in Aurobindoās early poetry) there are flashes of a mysterious woman, an unidentified lady, not dark but cosmicā¦Who was the lady before the eyes of the passionate teenage scholar? Biographers have failed in their research. āGhosal, āAurobindoās Poetryā Came across someone posting this, any inputs into who this mysterious figure is? Is this something symbolic/spiritual or a literal personš¤?
Sri Aurobindo was very much identified with Kali in the early part of his life. He has described her in several places in his poetry

Sometimes, you eagerly wait for a difficult situation to end because it feels exhausting and overwhelming. You keep wondering when it will finally be over. But when it does, instead of feeling relieved, you experience an emptiness, as if you’ve lost something meaningful. You might even start longing for that situation again, despite the struggles it brought, forgetting how difficult it actually was. Why does it happensš„?
It is because the vital energy was engaged in it. When the situation is over, the energy is released but then it is not directed