We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Ā
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My question was regarding dealing with colleagues at workplace especially when there are small talks are going on regarding very trivial matters. What should be our approach towards that!Ā If we don’t get indulged in that discussion they treat us as outcasts!! So I was asking how to deal with everybody consciously with a right attitude at workplace which I suppose one of the most challenging aspects of professional lifešÆ?
In the work place, it is best to remain professional and focused on the work. As to people, our interactions with them should be pleasant
I feel deeply disappointed in my relationship because my partner is very cold when it comes to expressing his feelings. He shows no excitement in life and rarely appreciates me. We never talk about our relationship, which leaves me feeling disconnected and alone. Often, he comes up with excuses for everything. Sometimes, he puts in effort and does a lot, but other times, he does nothing at all. We are married and live together, but it feels like I am the only one who expresses emotions and goes the extra mile to make things work. I constantly find myself questioning where we stand because we never openly discuss our emotions or the state of our relationship. I even suggested going to a counselor to help us communicate better, but he dismissed the idea, saying, āIām not mad.ā Itās exhausting to be the only one constantly trying while he remains emotionally distant and unresponsiveš„.
Most relationship generally tend to become so. After the initial vital flush that attracts and draws people together is over. The usual mechanical round of
What if you meet your soulmate after Marriageš?Ā
It is important to be sure of being the soul mate or at least a deeper soul link. The difference between the usual extra marital
Why The Mother and Sri Aurobindo didn’t transform their own bodyš¤?
Sri Aurobindo and the Mother never promised physical transformation of their body or any body in their lifetime. They always said that the physical transformation
What is a black hole in space? Why does it exist? And does it have a spiritual significanceš§?
Black hole is simply called so because it traps Light that enters it. Once it enters, even Light cannot escape out. This is because of…
Alok da, I’m coming to realise how much of the entire political establishment, military, bureaucracy each and everyone’s sons/daughters/nephew/niece is in US. Recently Former US ambassador to India said “I met a Governer of a State (in India)… she said her most important investment is in the US.. her children. If you look at the number of children of senior officials from India in the US, it tells you something about the relationship”š¤ [Conti]
But why should we be worried about what the ruling class does or does not do? Besides, the depressed classes do the same thing when
My partner enjoys eating non-veg, drinking, and partying, whereas I am the complete oppositeāI prefer a quiet lifestyle, vegetarian food, and donāt like partying. We even tried to make the relationship work by agreeing that he could go to parties if he wanted, but he shouldnāt expect me to join. Despite our efforts to do our own things and tried to live in harmony, we still end up fighting so much. Iām not sure what to doš¤Ø?
This is unlikely to work. The divergence and dissonance is too fundamental to be overlooked for life. Each doing their own thing is not harmony
Why do some people turn to self-harm or experience suicidal thoughts when they face disappointment or unfulfilled desires in life or relationshipsš„? What leads to such extreme emotional responses, and how can these feelings be understood and addressed?
It is generally due to a fragile, over sensitive ego-personality and a weak vital full of sentimentality. It could be something one is born with
Can you please advise what is the right space between a couple, I donāt see balance around either they are stuck to each other like a Fevicol (your wordsĀ š) or they are not bothered what the other person is doing saying we give each other space so what should be the ideal?
Space and freedom is necessary for growth so that each can progress along one’s own unique line. At the same time each supports the other
Sir, please explain Shiva & Shakti tatva in detail whenever you get time. Is shakti the same as Parvatiš¤?
Traditionally Ma Parvati is regarded as Shakti because Shiva represents the Force aspect of the One Satchidananda, just as Brahma represents the Sat aspect and
I have another question which is about the Divine will. How do we understand what is the Divine will and whether whatever I am doing is in confirmation with the Divine willš¤Ø? Is inner peace the only indication that my being and whatever I do is confirming with the Divine will?
Normally when we speak of the Divine Will we feel it is about the outer choices and the resulting events and circumstances. Especially we make
Why did Sri Krishna make Devaki Ma and Vasudev and Ma Yashoda forget that he was the Avatarš¤?Ā
Because if they remembered and revealed it to others, it would have jeopardised Sri Krishna’s work, which among other things was to set an example
I know that Iām not a sattwic soul; my nature seems more tamsik. I experience jealousy, I desire to be the best, and I suspect that I have some ego. When I do Puja, it sometimes feels mechanical. How can I overcome these qualitiesš«¤?
Nobody is an ideal sattwic person to begin with. Most human beings are subject to the same human difficulties as you mention. But with a
Sometimes, scrolling through social media and seeing other people’s photos creates the illusion that their lives are perfectāfree from struggles or worries. It seems as if they have effortlessly found true love, married their soulmate, and stepped into their “happily ever after,” as though everything has fallen into place flawlessly. But your own lifeš„,[Conti]…
Have you not heard the story about the advertisement of hell. It is overactive and its sole purpose is to turn humanity away or since
Looking at the current situation in India I believe democracy is not working, its more of a hindrance, in one of you talks you talked about Sanathan Dharma, you talked a new type of politics, can you please elaborate on this? What can be a new way of politics for Indiaš¤?
Democracy is the child of Reason and hence was meant only as a stop gap system. Its strength lies in uplifting the average man to
IĀ have observed more and more children in USA and other countries are Autism and have Down syndrome, in fact a friend told me one in every 40 child in USA is autistic, why is this happening? Is it the pressure of the consciousness? Is it Divine way of balancing the universe as Autistic people are simple as they are not cunning or mean or ambitious like they donāt have the mental traits like a mental human have, please shares your view on thisš«¤.Ā
It is difficult to say with certainty but a number of factors could be operating.
Vaccination drives since few decades could be responsible for
Sri Aurobindo talks about drawing Divine power to earth to transform human consciousness. But I have read in Mother’s books and also listened in your Youtube video….don’t try to pull the higher or divine to you. Give yourself to the divine more and more. How to understand thisš¤?
Sri Aurobindo was speaking of himself drawing the Supramental Power for earth and mankind when he was asked by the disciples as to what he
Energy Vampires š¦ā if after talking to a person you feel completely drained on a regular basis, does this indicate theyāre an energy vampire? How to protect ourselves against such people, and how to spot them? The other observation I had is that when I am feeling strong in my vital, I can push back, while when I am feeling vitally low and dull, I become the victim of such people. Hence, the second part of the question is how to develop this vital strength to resist negative influences?
Yes there are sex vampires who draw away energy from others, especially by attracting the victims towards themselves. But this is fortunately not common. There