It is doubtful that the Mother would direct you to any god unless She felt you are likely to be more receptive to the particular deity. In any case god Muruga is a great and wonderful deity whose space is in the heart centre, near the psychic being. Perhaps it is an indication that you should concentrate on Her Presence in the heart centre to remove the forces obstructing your inner progress and creating difficulties in outer life.

Alok Da, I have got attached to someone after a physical intimacy (kind of night stands – about 4-5) but he is not. how to handle it. Actually I thought I am in love with him…so I allowed all that to happen…else i happened to be someone who wouldn’t let anyone touch me. What should I do? I am afraid of conveying my feelings to him as I know he is not going to reciprocate. I am just always craving his proximity, which i know is my problem.. How can I be at peace?? I want to detach myself from those feelings i have towards him?
What has happened has happened. It serves no purpose looking back and feeling bad. Life gives several learning lessons. This is one of them and a very precious one. One needs to understand that the way a woman feels and experiences life is very different from the …

