AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER

Life Problems And Psychological Difficulties

When we feel jealousy, angry about anyone, by remembering the words of mother “not to entertain these activities within urself” succeed in ceasing the action or manifestation & sexual impulse also in the same process. Though it lasts 1 min or half a min in our thoughts. Just diverting our minds, we succeeded in stopping these actions 🤔 (A stable/ cool form is established within our body system) [conti]

The question is deep and very much valid. Indeed the body remembers not only the memories it has had during the lifetime in a particular

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There are some desires in us that are too strong. Even if we try and surrender those, something in us still clings to those desires and makes us anxious about them. Some part in us also has the knowledge that even if this desire is fulfilled, it will be transient and has no future, but the part that clings to the desire feels something like “Even if it gives me happiness for 1 second, I want it”😬[conti]

It is true for all of us. Almost all go through this process and the Divine Mother carries each through this treacherous terrain and sometimes

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I have a question. I want to learn English. I can’t read or understand it and I am thinking of doing LLB. So, is it right to do LLB? And if I want to learn English, how can I learn it so that I can speak and understand it? And there is a lot of fighting at my home, so I will try to spend some time away from everyone so that there will be less fighting, and I can become something in life. It is also my father’s dream that I study and become something 😥[Conti]

f you feel that you want to be a lawyer you should do it. As to learning English there are a number of Spoken English

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I have a question. Suppose due to some circumstances I have to do some unproductive work and too busy in my schedule, of course, through my own karma I can surrender, but sometimes I realize that due to some reason I’m compelled to do work which are not necessary . But I want to read more and more Lord’s book but not …….Every time I’m not able to incline with Lord ……but my soul wants something beyond…..what to be done …would u answer please🙏?

Prayer and calling Her Name is of course the main stay for changing the curve of karma along which one is walking. Especially when the

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Why is it that when someone chooses not to follow conventional paths—like pursuing a Masters or PhD, having children or a traditional job—and instead lives differently without glorifying their struggle and challenges, people/society often dismiss it as taking the ‘easy path,’ while glorifying conventional struggles as more valuable🤨?

Yes because most people believe that the path of life they have chosen is the best or the only true path. Besides every life has

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 I feel an immense weight on my heart because I realize that I’ve done everything wrong. I entered into a relationship with someone driven by my own desires for materialistic things and personal needs, to fulfill them, without truly considering his genuine feelings. My intentions weren’t pure, and the foundation of this relationship was flawed from the beginning. Now, I can’t help but feel that I’ve used him, and this guilt is consuming me 😥

First thing you need to understand is that nobody is responsible for anyone else. Besides things change, people evolve, relationships shift because nothing is static

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But is it really just the parents or something else stopping you? Look within carefully as there are interesting discoveries to be made. For very often we transfer our own fears to others whereas it is we who need to summon up the courage to live by the truth of our being. “Is it so that if I was really fearless… I would not be bothered by the parents acceptance of something😕?

Yes. Quite so. One then simply follows the truth in one’s heart and accepts full responsibility and consequence of ….

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In my life difficulties are growing and while trying to solve them it keeps on increasing. My parents have to suffer for me which gives me more pain than my own suffering. I know difficulties come to make us grow and conscious in life. But how to face them and what should be my attitude in facing all the suffering😪? How to increase faith and aspiration? How to become worthy of Mother’s Grace? 

The road to the Divine is not easy. Various forms of challenges come from within as well as from the people around us. As such

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People around me all think money💵 is the only requirement. I see greed in their eyes. I work in a private organization, gets enough salary for myself and don’t want more. My parents are looking for a girl for marriage. Please put some light on money. How one should take decision in terms of money. What should one keep in mind. Jai Sri Maa.

Money should not govern one’s decisions nor be the main priority. It has its own place in life but a place too often exaggerated due

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How to deal with the worries and fears about a possible future difficulty, that may or may not come? I think my psychosis is magnifying my worries many times. Sometimes, I am unable to divert my attention from these worries, dear Alok da. I am praying to the Divine, which comforts me sometimes, but not always. I want to remember the Divine most of the time, but with these worries, it feels as if I am living in a mental hell. I want to take Refuge in the Divine, and so, be free of all worries, but I think my psychosis is not allowing me to nestle much in the Divine’s arms. I want to talk and pray to the Divine, both by speaking and writing to Him, but I am unable to come out of these worries, which is making it difficult even to talk to the Divine. I try to reason out the worries by mental analysis, but that is not helping either, perhaps because of my psychosis, dear Alok da. I want to connect to the Divine most of the time, but these worries are very painful😕

Don’t keep thinking of the difficulties and the worries. They only increase by it. As to psychosis take whatever treatment you may have been advised

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