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Dada, whenever I feel a downpour of presence from the top of my head, my lustful tendencies grow, and subsequently, I feel a blockage in descent and a great discomfort with some pain in my head. Even after repeated rejections, these suggestions of lust come even more strongly. How to reject them permanently, as I feel that I am just suppressing them. 🫥🦋

It takes time, and one has to be very patient. Rejecting lustful thoughts is not enough. One needs to stay busy and do a lot of exercise. The sexual energy must be sublimated into creative activities, and there should be regular readings and reflection so that the mind is preoccupied with beautiful thoughts. Read a few passages from Savitri or any book of The Mother and Sri Aurobindo before you meditate. 

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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