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When sharing a tight space with my sibling, I end up fighting over minuscule things, such as when responsibilities are not shared equally or when she doesn’t keep the place neat and clean. I don’t want to get mentally affected by these things, but at the same time, I don’t want to take on the whole responsibility on behalf of both people. 👥[…]

Should I do it all or wait for her to do it in her own timeline? How can I influence the right behavior in the other person?

It should be shared, either by way of demarcation of responsibilities or else sharing of the common work. This will help both of you, especially your sister. 

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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