This is not a defeatist strategy but indeed a wise thing to do. One should not push the doors of destiny too hard to force

The irritation is understandable because one feels compelled. The source of this compulsion is a conditioning that we need to conform to or do what

Romance is more like the courtship dance in animals. It attracts the boy and the girl through mutual charm and attraction. But as love grows

It is best to keep an arms distance from such a person as, besides other things, it means that the person is too self-opinionated and

I think it is important to separate the chaff from the wheat. There is nothing wrong in hanging out or being friends even bestest of

Your understanding and being with him is itself a big support. We may not be always able to change outer circumstances the way we wish

Love is the secret but a love that is wide and strong, love that is of the nature of giving, love that is prepared to

It is obvious that one should not engage in a relationship if one is not happy about it or doesn’t feel love. There is nothing

Anger and frustration come from expectations. The remedy therefore lies in expecting nothing from the world, from anybody. Expect only from the Divine knowing that

Their response is their karma. We should not be effected by how they respond. But yes one should see and understand the nature of such

A classic example is Arjuna’s marriage to Subhadra. She was indeed his distant or rather step cousin. There are other examples too.
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One should say as simply and directly as one should. There should be nothing to fear if there is love for love understands perfectly. At

It of course helps if both the partners are on the same path and have the same goal. It creates a bonding at the deepest

Keep the affection but avoid the discussions. The mind takes certain positions based on its angle of vision and then it gets fixated upon it.

The child should carve her own path leaving behold the past. It is easier by bringing in a right understanding. Parents, almost all parents of

Stopping will hurt them and it is not needed as the ritual is simply one expression of love and care. You can pray for them,

These things happen when we are excessively focused on one aspect or dimension to the exclusion of others, especially the emotional and passionate aspects of