AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER

Relationships

One of my grandmothers is growing old and frail she is almost bed ridden cannot get out of her room and is 92 years, I pray that she may be freed from this body that has become a burden and reason for pain, is this a selfish prayer? Can one pray for a loved ones death😪? What is the best approach in times like these ?

Many prayers are for selfish reasons so that itself does not make a prayer meaningless. But this prayer for someone’s departure at the person’s presumed

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I would really appreciate your guidance on the following issue which is greatly bothering me 😭and I feel it’s not good for my spiritual progress. This is about my relationship with my son, which is getting lost and becoming irrecoverable since the last 2 yrs. Short story, we were a dysfunctional family, and I carry guilt about many things I failed to do for him in his childhood as his Mother due to my being lost in my issues. In spite of all spiritual knowledge,

Guilt has no place in spiritual life. What is done is done. One cannot go back and change things. But we can surely learn our

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Generally speaking, I don’t tend to pay much attention to what people say about me, or hurtful things etc.. Because when they do, I just think they’re entitled to their own opinion and what they say doesn’t really pierce my heart because I can see they’re just angry or perhaps just want to hurt me intentionally – so I just offer it and move on swiftly. Like I couldn’t care less most of the time😠. [Conti]

It is a sign that you are inwardly quite developed. With this inner development, some people, develop a suprasensitive nervous system. What is needed is

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A couple of months back a guy I went for lunch with paid for my lunch because the place didn’t accept card payment. At the time I was sick, and so I forgot about it. A month later, the person reminded me of it (the amount was trifling). I was going to do it, but got distracted by various other things and so forgot again, and so the next day this person gave me a middle finger, called me a thief, telling me that he wishes I get into an accident, and swore at me. I finally gave him the money the same day, apologised for the delay, but also told him that what he told me was over the bar and unacceptable. He didn’t even reply anything. Now, whenever I see this person, he looks away and avoids me. Any normal person would have long apologised and behaved appropriately, but I suspect that this person’s extremely strange behaviour is due to his drug use (he told me earlier that he took psychedelics recently). Something in me pities him, yet at the same time I also don’t feel comfortable around him because of his strange behaviour. Can you suggest what is the best attitude I should take in this situation🫤?

It is the sign of meanness. It is best to keep distance from such people unless you are responsible for them in any way. To

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There is always a bitter taste behind the human love―it is only the Divine Love which never disappoints”. How does one deal with disappointments, expectations, even when we think we are ready from within to deal with everything suddenly a blow comes and shatter everything. The more I get engaged in these outer things, the more farther I find myself from The Mother. Which is the most heartbreaking thing for me😣.

One has to go through the experiences of life to understand this profound truth. Some learn fast, some slowly the lesson of life that in

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How do some people move from one relationship to another so quickly, almost overnight? Do they not have feelings, or do they simply not care about the emotions of the person they leave behind? It’s heartbreaking how relationships that once seemed so deep filled with words like “I love you so much” and “You’re my everything”—can end so badly. Were those words ever real, or do people change so easily? Now they will say the same words to other person. How can someone who once cherished you now walk away so easily with someone else, hurt you, and immediately start a new relationship as if nothing happened? Do they ever reflect on the pain they cause to other😪?

It is difficult to generalise such things and, i must say very very rare to move suddenly overnight. Generally a build up is taking place

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