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Why does it happen that every time I am being approached by my romantic partner close enough, with the intention of lovemaking or simply touching or being simply romantic, I feel a strong response of blackout(momentary loss of consciousness) and feel withdrawn with respect to consciousness. Is it a sign that he is an obstacle to the path of Yoga? πŸ‘¨πŸ»β€β€οΈβ€πŸ‘©πŸ»πŸŒΉπŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«

It is rather a good sign, the sign of an evolved person. There is nothing wrong with your partner or with you. It is just that you are inwardly an evolved human being and hence find it difficult, perhaps even unnatural, to connect with certain activities that belong to the animal past of our evolution. What you can do is that instead of going blank, think of the Divine Mother even during the act and offer it to Her.Β 

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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