We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.Β
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.
Sir as already mentioned I have only the Mother to cry when I have been through suffering. If a person in 50s have approached to marry me and I like some of his qualities and I am disliking others. I have taken wrong decision in the past by applying for Divorce and as I donβt wish to repeat it again by taking wrong decision; however unable to confirm if the Mother wants this man in my life or not, what should I do?π β¦ π€·ββοΈβ¬ οΈ π§ β‘οΈ
While this is a decision that only you can take, I can only provide some general guidance in this matter.
First and foremost relationships
I again see a dream of Shri Krishna. In which a person gets down from a helicopter, he says something, then he moves ahead, then I see that he turns into Krishna, then I run behind him, maybe he was saying something to him, I don’t remember, then he turns back and looks at me and throws white Makhana and as soon as I pick up those Makhana, they turn into white pearls
Very beautiful vision. Sri Krishna has led you here and given you the seeds of lotus (makhana) giving you the assurance that one day the
I donβt seek to ask questions as asking questions feels kind of limiting something when there is river like flow of knowledge and peace, itβs just that in the span of few months, I lost my mother, and after that my girlfriend who seemed to be so perfect and loving to me, and asked to marry me and tell how perfect we were, and she too got married elsehwhere and now have a son. So the only thing which is making me move is the hope that in the end at least god will be there, when nothing else is left , but I sometimes feel what am I doing wrong that Iβm not able to calm myself when I thought I was strong already and is there any steps I can take?π π π«βοΈ
If you look at the events closely you will see that there is a Grace working to take you closer to your true destiny, –
My older sister introduced me to Sri Aurobindoβs books when I was in college and now she seems like a completely different person and it worries me. I donβt know what I can do?π€Όβ‘π§±
I can understand your pain. She has come under the influence of hostile forces as happens sometimes when there is a premature turning and the
Since my childhood through my Father I have been connected to Mother. I come to Pondicherry for Mother’s birthday for darshan day. Like you said I feel as if I am with Sri Aurobindo and The Mother very closely. After reading so many of Sri Aurobindo and Mother’s book and putting into practice I still want more. Please elaborate whether we can feel the opening up or how and what is it one does in life to widen the opening?πͺ·ππ§οΈπΉ
Opening comes through thinking of The Mother, remembering Her inwardly, reading Their books, serving Them, concentrating upon the Mother’s Presence in the heart, calling …
3 years ago when I came to the Ashram exactly at this time of the year – spring equinox – certain situation in my life were happening. I feel those exact same things are repeating right now. I am scared. I donβt want it to have the same result. I want a different outcome this time.Β π«£π’π³οΈ
But why be scared if the heart is opening? Let it open wide to the Divine Love and give itself to the Divine who is
I have mental disease, I take one tablet every night. I want to do Mother’s Yoga. Is Buddhi Yoga and mental control possible for patient because my mind cannot cease to think and I fear a lot in every moment. Mother says fear is hostile force. I am egoistic person and I have vanity, and also get angry sometimes and I don’t talk much, I am very vulnerable and emotional. I know Mother and Sri Aurobindo helps everyone. Is it possible to do Mother’s Yoga for patient like me?ππ§ π«οΈπΈοΈ
Everything is possible once the aspiration has awakened. Even if outer circumstances are averse and the inner nature not ready, yet we must follow the
Β I had posted on trauma of abuse in my teenage days…and now everything is getting better especially psychologically ..I am there fr my children, myself still recovering..may be it’s a journey….Mother knows …I have handed over it to the Lord now too..the burden …Through my therapist I got to know that a tunnel is open of past life ..from where the entities have been coming etc..π§Έ π©Ή β¨
Police complaint hardly helps in family matters. You have to ensure that the child is never alone in his company and preferably is kept away
But what if sabko follow karne k baad bhi i haven’t got my answers and solution to the problems? kya Savitri aur life divine ka healing effect bhi hai kya and transformation impact.π£π³π¦π
If one has not found one’s answer one should continue the seeking.
Savitri has a healing power in it but one has to open and
I was studying the Gita in the light of Sri Aurobindo, where he mentions that as per Sri Krishna first you have to realize the Self and continue to work in a Yogic spirit and then surrender to me with love. I am bit confused here that whether one should focus on realizing the Self and then move towards Sri Krishna as we see in the life of Sri Aurobindo that he first realized Nirvana which was followed by Vasudevam sarvam iti? Or to start with surrender to Sri Krishna from the very beginning itself even prior to Self realization? The second alternative looks to me more appropriate than the earlier one, but just want to have your thoughts about my thought process?πͺπͺΆπ π
Sri Krishna and Sri Aurobindo both confirm that by surrendering to the Divine one will surely realise the Self as well as the Divine Personality
I am also The Mother’s child. When I was in my student life I came into the contact with The Mother & Sri Aurobindo due to my employer CA. Later I started going to the center and read the books of The Mother & Sri Aurobindo. At present I am CA. In my early career I started teaching as profession but due to voice box issue I need to left. So I started with share market work but from last few months I am making losses. Recently I read The Mother’s literature where she say not to work in the field of Share Market. Now I don’t have enough client to even maintain my office expense. How should I earn to manage my livelihood? ππ°πΈ
I am not sure why you did not continue keeping CA as your main profession and instead went into the Share Market as the mainstay
A couple of days back in one of the talks you mentioned about overcoming guilt and offering the anti divine to The Mother.Β How one can stop or control a bad habit and/or remove guilt hindering their spiritual journey? How to offer this anti divine to The Mother.πͺ·π€²ποΈπΉ
Thanks for the question. The first step is to stop judging oneself negatively or positively based on certain ‘bad’ habits. Certain habits are bad because
I have been scolded and banned from using headphones in wards , which I used to listen to your videos or Mother’s music in free time. I keep feeling that I should just leave this pg seat and join Sri Aurobindo Ashram I know life won’t be easy n chill anywhere if I am not peaceful within but at least in Ashram I would be able to remember Maa all the time and wouldn’t have so many restrictions. Any advice on this how to deal with such situation??π€―ππ«οΈ
Do not leave the work you are doing. It is She who has given this work to you to prepare you for the future. Instead
Last night, I dreamt of you againβit felt as though the dreams were unfolding like a continuous series. There was a classroom where you were teaching something….π€π΄πβοΈ
The first dream is about the need for concentration and one-pointedness.
The second dream is about the long journey through the seven-fold opening of the…
Sri Aurobindo says that all that we reject from the conscious goes and settles in the subconscient. How do we destroy the very seed from the subconscient itself? What are some practical methods to do it?ππ³οΈπ
The Mother spoke of the mantra that works best in the subconscient parts. The mantra breaks the hard cover of resistances, lays them bare before
People make all sorts of effort to have Godβs darshan; some even weep and weep, yet they fail to obtain it. We in the Ashram donβt seem to have done very much, and yet we are here with you. What has brought this about?π§Ώβ»οΈπ€οΈπ
Karma is an outer machinery, the Law through which things are worked out in creation.
But what seems outwardly a mechanism of Nature is seen
Could you please suggest me any Book by Sri Aurobindo and The Mother which I can recommend to them or say to all highly educated contemporary young adults having ingrained analytical thinking based on logical reasoning without any spiritual bent of mind?? Meanwhile, I will continue pray to The Mother for all these youngsters and finally trust Divine Grace which alone can infuse aspiration into their hearts. π ποΈπ¦πΈ
There are some good short compilations from the writings that work best. It will depend upon the kind of interest that the children have. A
If one realizes that trying to change others is a cycle of ignorance, how can they help those who have no apparent need for inner growth without forcing them into suffering, and is the “spark” of transformation solely the work of Grace, requiring us to let go of the urge to “fix” others? β³ππ β πππ»β¨
The Divine is the unchanging stable basis of everything but He is also in the change. That is why people are compelled to change despite