I feel like “no don’t accept him” & somedays I feel “do you have to lose this opportunity and live in regret like you did after divorce “, can I pray to the Mother to give me clarity to know if she has chosen this person for me or not? And the strength to move on if she has not arranged him for me?
Sir all your spiritual discourses are very meaningful and healing. Thank you Her blessings and grace
While this is a decision that only you can take, I can only provide some general guidance in this matter.
First and foremost relationships are very rarely a neat fit where everything is liked or matches. You have to see if there is a general affinity of nature, a largely common outlook and goal, and most importantly, a sense of comfort and happiness in each other’s company.
To think about what happened in the past and what may happen in the future only confuses the decision. The past is only for learning and improving rather than lamenting and becoming frightful. The future is always uncertain and unpredictable. One has to go by the feeling in the depth of one’s heart.
Marraiges in middle ages often works better because one has learnt from the past and the liking is generally not based on surface attractions or sexual needs. It is more of sharing and caring or a kind of partnership and friendship which have better chances of lasting.
Whatever decision one takes, one should do it with trust in the future. None can predict it yet all can navigate it with the power of faith.
Affectionately,
Alok Da
