It is not psychic love but a beautiful human love. In psychic love, one does share the core aspiration. Of course it is possible that one person loves the other with a psychic feeling. In that case one continues to love even if everything in the other person is opposite or even if the other person does not love. It is a steady flame that burns constantly as its nature is giving unconditionally, the only joy being the joy of giving. But in such a one-sided psychic feeling the union is never complete and when these other parts of nature come up there may be dissonance within and even an undercurrent of dissatisfaction, not with the person but within oneself as love by its nature seeks complete union.
Affectionately,
Alok Da