And I have another question: If a girl wants to practice Sadhana without getting married, is that right or wrong? If it is right, what things should she focus on? Please explain these things to me, as I am not able to understand. I don’t want to get married and settle down, but my family is forcing me to get married. What should I do?
The integral yoga is not a yoga of bhakti alone. And even the bhakti here is not of the traditional kind. This yoga is not easy and requires a one-pointed dedication and surrender to the Mother and the Mother alone. As to marriage, it has to be a personal decision. It depends upon each one. It works well for some, giving them the experiences one needs for the sadhana. With others, it can absorb and lock lot of energies in meaningless activities. Besides some can stay alone and even prefer to be independent. Others need a companion. So, general rules cannot be made.
However, you are quite young right now to get into marriage. Right now, you should focus on studies and becoming financially independent. Meanwhile, continue reading and practising the yoga with faith. Cultivate peace and equanimity and remember the Mother as often as you can.Β
Affectionately,
Alok Da
