Generic selectors
Exact matches only
Search in title
Search in content
Post Type Selectors
Topics
Note: The tag system has just been implemented. It may take some time before all Q&A posts are fully covered under the relevant topics.

X
A
B
C
D
E
F
G
H
I
J
K
L
M
N
O
P
Q
R
S
T
U
V
W
Y
Z
#
A
B
C
D
E
F
G
H
I
J
K
L
M
N
O
P
Q
R
S
T
U
V
W
Y
Z
#
A
B
C
D
E
F
G
H
I
J
K
L
M
N
O
P
Q
R
S
T
U
V
W
Y
Z
#
No matching topics found.
Subscribe
Instagram Facebook
Visit auromaa.org for more talks of
Dr. Alok Pandey
Generic selectors
Exact matches only
Search in title
Search in content
Post Type Selectors
ASK ALOK DA
Ask Your Question
Instagram Facebook

auromaa.org for more talks of
Dr. Alok Pandey

AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER
Ask Alok da

Alok da, now when I am making a decision or choosing an idea/something, try to follow The Mother’s guidance. Try not to be egoistic or hypocritical or under someone’s influence or judgmental. I know I am not one hundred per cent perfect, but I try to follow it and also surrender the action and result to The mother. Nowadays the by the grace of the mother, the result of the action (success or failure) does not affect me so much, and the Mother Sri Arobindo helps to move forward. There is lot of things going on inside and outside.  As you say kail doing the dancing. Today I need help on a specific condition. Because the action I am taking is not always as per the wife’s choice, it creates a conflicting/argumental situation. Is the feeling emerging from my ego (that she is not understanding my journey) or anything else? 🦁🥇⭐💫

Initially, I tried to convince her by explaining the reason, but now a days I am not doing so, because as my limited understanding, she has her own jurney though her experiences and The Mother is there with her to help. My only task is to look inside myself. Nowadays, a strong detachment feeling (physical or emotional) emerges.(My love for her is now different i am not able to explain it.) I have the feeling for the last 6 months. This feeling remains in the normal situation and increse little bit in the conflicting situation.

It is the soul within us that feel detached and turns away from when it sees the limitations and imperfections of the earthly life. It turns away in search of its meaning and purpose, in search of Truth. It is under the soul’s influence that the ego and desire-self start disengaging with life as it is today. It is also true that the nature of love changes either towards a friendship or a kind of compassion that looks at the human condition or very simply a dropping away of all the burden of expectations that one carries habitually in the standard format of relationship leading to quarrels, frustrations, disappointments, and all the many-hued drama of life that keeps the vital engaged. It is in fact a release and a step in the right direction. 

Affectionately,

Alok Da

Share this…

Related Posts

How to free my husband from trading habit?

October 5, 2026

It is usually a kind of compulsion and if there is handy money there will be the urge to put it in trading. He has to co-operate and try to stay busy so that the mind gets diverted especially during late evenings. If he is not willing to co-operate then he will need to see a counselor locally. There are medicines that can help which can be prescribed.

Read More >

How can one enlighten, strengthen and purify the vital? It is also mentioned that the choice of sensations and their control should be made with a very scientific austerity and solely for the growth and perfection of the vital. In day-to-day life, what would it mean and how should one practice this? 🔥🌱

October 5, 2026

The vital generally acts under the impulsion of desire and its children ambition, fear, and the rest. The first step in its refinement is to practice equanimity and nishkama karma, that is to say, action done with an eye on perfection rather than personal gains. Next it should be turned into an offering to the Divine within, an act of worship of the Divine. Here is a beautiful hint by The Mother…

Read More >

I am the person who spoke about the absence of divine intervention, and I would like to clarify a few things first. No, sir. The question I asked is neither biased nor the result of an emotional outburst. 💭🕊️ […]

October 5, 2026

See the presumptions you carry and believe to be true. As a starter you presumed I am sitting in an AC room giving lectures comfortably. Please come and spend a day with me to see my comforts or the comforts of those who have ever searched for truth. Just for ..

Read More >