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AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER
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Alok da, now when I am making a decision or choosing an idea/something, try to follow The Mother’s guidance. Try not to be egoistic or hypocritical or under someone’s influence or judgmental. I know I am not one hundred per cent perfect, but I try to follow it and also surrender the action and result to The mother. Nowadays the by the grace of the mother, the result of the action (success or failure) does not affect me so much, and the Mother Sri Arobindo helps to move forward. There is lot of things going on inside and outside.  As you say kail doing the dancing. Today I need help on a specific condition. Because the action I am taking is not always as per the wife’s choice, it creates a conflicting/argumental situation. Is the feeling emerging from my ego (that she is not understanding my journey) or anything else? 🦁🥇⭐💫

Initially, I tried to convince her by explaining the reason, but now a days I am not doing so, because as my limited understanding, she has her own jurney though her experiences and The Mother is there with her to help. My only task is to look inside myself. Nowadays, a strong detachment feeling (physical or emotional) emerges.(My love for her is now different i am not able to explain it.) I have the feeling for the last 6 months. This feeling remains in the normal situation and increse little bit in the conflicting situation.

It is the soul within us that feel detached and turns away from when it sees the limitations and imperfections of the earthly life. It turns away in search of its meaning and purpose, in search of Truth. It is under the soul’s influence that the ego and desire-self start disengaging with life as it is today. It is also true that the nature of love changes either towards a friendship or a kind of compassion that looks at the human condition or very simply a dropping away of all the burden of expectations that one carries habitually in the standard format of relationship leading to quarrels, frustrations, disappointments, and all the many-hued drama of life that keeps the vital engaged. It is in fact a release and a step in the right direction. 

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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