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I don’t seek to ask questions as asking questions feels kind of limiting something when there is river like flow of knowledge and peace, it’s just that in the span of few months, I lost my mother, and after that my girlfriend who seemed to be so perfect and loving to me, and asked to marry me and tell how perfect we were, and she too got married elsehwhere and now have a son. So the only thing which is making me move is the hope that in the end at least god will be there, when nothing else is left , but I sometimes feel what am I doing wrong that I’m not able to calm myself when I thought I was strong already and is there any steps I can take?🌊 🎒 😫⛏️

If you look at the events closely you will see that there is a Grace working to take you closer to your true destiny, – the Divine. Your physical mother has left you but isn’t the Divine Mother with you? Isn’t She our Mother across lives? Your girlfriend surely didn’t love you. She was only fooling around else she would not have left you after giving a rosy picture. Imagine if this deception masquerading as love was uncovered after marraige? Perhaps destiny is responding to your deeper aspiration of discovering and becoming one with the Divine. But the ego and desire-self are feeling hurt and lost. 

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Alok Da

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