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There are many difficulties in my house. No one is in a position to understand or explain anything. But my problem is that I am in the last year of my MA. Right now, or even for the next few years, I have no desire to get married, but no one seems to understand this. πŸ˜£πŸ“šπŸŒΉπŸ‘¨πŸ»β€β€οΈβ€πŸ‘©πŸ»[…]

Please tell me what I should do? Without informing me, they have even gone to see potential matches. I kept thinking about whether to ask you or not, and finally, I decided to ask. Please tell me something!

A simple thumb rule for our times is that one should not marry until one is psychologically ready and financially independent. One should at least know something about the person and the family before deciding on marriage. If parents persist, one should try to explain, giving reasons for the unwillingness and addressing their concerns.

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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