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Questions Asked by Children

My parents wants me to get a job as soon as possible so that I can get settled as they are getting old. Almost, and I literally mean ‘almost everyday’ they tell me that all we want is jldi jldi job lag jaaye. Ghar basa den tumhara’. And this is the only reason I shifted my career option from philosophy teaching to something else… Although I have not started preparing for anything yet.😪[conti] 

One doesn’t become a Hindu just by being born in a Hindu family. One should be a dwij, twice born, born into the spiritual life

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Bhaiya My sister has an overprotective instinct for her daughter. She doesn’t allow her to go for a movie with boys. She doesn’t allow her to wear modern outfits, and she used to tell her to do all these things once you get a job. Due to which she asked me a question: is it right to do all these things without asking for permission, or else she will wait until she gets a job? Please advice what should be the right attitude should she take😥

It is not a question of doing things with or without permission but doing them consciously and knowing the implications of our actions. One should

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Alok da from few days I can’t sleep without going in mummas room. Every day mumma 😥makes me sleep but I can’t sleep then she scolds me and I cry, I am allowed to go in her room if I wake up in the night but every day I don’t like it. Why every day I can’t sleep. From yesterday she goes away and says you can come in the room after 45 or 50 mins and I hate it I listen to your talks in that time And I can’t sleep without mumma so in the mean time I listen to your talks , sit in bed ( not sleep ) and play with my stuff toy ( rarely ) How can I sleep without mumma and why do I need mumma. This every day since 4 days is irritating. And while sleeping I get irritation in my body I feel some insect is roaming around my leg but when I check there is nothing why does this happen

Mumma wants you to be strong and independent so she insists on your sleeping alone. If you find it difficult try keeping something of her

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