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Dear Sir, why does Nightfall happen? I know, I am asking a Teenager’s question in my thirties, but I sincerely don’t know the cause. I think I am not sincere enough, and I have hidden lust, which causes this to me. 🛌🏼🥱🦋🌷✨

Nightfalls occur because the sexual fluid needs an outlet. It has five possible outlets. One is through a physical relationship with a woman, which is its natural course. Second is the sublimation of its energies in sports and creative activities. Third is its transmutation through drawing the energies upwards by the force of higher spiritual aspiration. These two are the higher operations available to man. There are two lower options. One is nightfalls when the storage exceeds the capacity to hold it. The last and worst, though the most common, is a manual release through masturbation and fantasy. It is the worst since it attracts dark elemental energies and makes the person vulnerable to attacks by adverse forces. And of this pornography is the worst because it ties the consciousness to a dark web of forces of falsehood. 

Nevertheless, guilt etc are not the way to deal with these things. The way is to increase one’s aspiration, to stay busy, to engage in sports or physical exercises and to call the Mother before one sleeps. With time, it stops and leaves the person free.

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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