Home » Day to Day Life » I have too much pressure from my in-laws to attend social functions and attend to other family responsibilities. The kids suffer as I have to leave them to attend these things. Please advise what to do. 👵🏻🙅🏻♀️🍂
One line of advice is: do not succumb to social pressures. It is not only about the harm these things do to the child but also to oneself. It is necessary to develop one’s individuality fully by making one’s choices.
Initially, the parents and friends may try to pull but later they will respect you for the integrity displayed and for standing by your choices.
Affectionately,
Alok da.
Share this…
Yes, yes. Stay away from drama, circus, people and all that. Stay with peace and equanimity.
It is a choice each one must make and go through the consequences. The Divine knows everything. What we think or feel about others is not important. Truth alone counts and it is only the Divine who knows it.
First thing first. It is to stop using any label to define or describe yourself. Each one has his or her own unique difficulties and challenges. You have yours. These challenges have to be dealt, each in their own way. For example if concentration and motivation is a challenge then one has find ways and means to augment. What one has to remember here is that if there is in us a faith and genuine will to change then there is nothing impossible. Take it …