One line advice is do not succumb to social pressures. It is not only about the harm these things do to the child but also to oneself. It is necessary to develop one’s individuality fully by making one’s choices.
Initially the parents and friends may try to pull but later they will respect you for the integrity displayed and standing by your choices.
Affectionately,
Alok da.
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This idea did flash across me once but the lunar race lineage (Chandravanshi) described in the Scripture are emotional, artistic, aesthetic unlike the moonlings that are supposed to be emotionally cold and lacking in the psychic being.
When the candle flame and the winds are strong, it helps if there is a fire or other flames around. When the spark or the flame grows into a fire then it gives light and heat to others. One can do both, read individually as well as collectively…
Try to first change a vehement rajasic ego into a sattwic ego that learns to accept and accomodate different viewpoints and takes into consideration the needs of others. Cultivate qualities of sympathy, affection, love for others. It is to turn attention away from oneself and take decisions based on what is the right and the true…
