We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.
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I got divorced from my ex- husband, and then got engaged with my fiancee and also had a breakup with him. He called off our wedding on the wedding day, due to which I completely went into the shock . I am not able to eat and sleep properly. Though I try to keep myself active but unable to control my thoughts and feelings. Now, I have trust issues, and also have fear and insecurities within me, please help me to come out of the situation.
I can understand your situation. Perhaps there was not sufficient time between the first marriage and the second engagement leaving unresolved issues and emotional hurt.
My mother lives in denial and delusion about herself and her equation with everyone around, now that is a problem more for the people around her and if I tell her anything like how she behaved in the past, she will plainly deny and fight with me, How to deal with this kind of a person?
The more you try to explain to her, the more she is likely to resist and become fixed in her position. Best is to…
I am an educated mother who has been through a failed business that wasn’t my original idea. Despite my education and experience, I still don’t know what to do. There is no purpose.
Purpose is indeed a most important driving force of life giving it a meaning as well as value. However we must distinguish between purpose and
Sri Aurobindo has written, “The soul gathers the essential elements of its experience in life and makes that its basis of growth in the evolution. When it returns to birth , it takes up with its mental, vital, physical sheaths so much so of its karma as is useful to it in the new life for farther experience” What does this mean?
It is the essence of an experience that the soul gathers. For example it may gather that a life of luxury and excess of wealth
My mumma and papa scold me in every single thing. For e.g. the ball got stuck due to air and then they are scolding me and saying stop defending your self . Another example is It was raining and we stopped the match I asked the umpire and he said no and I said ok, then my father is scolding me.
Always we should see love behind the action of parents and know that they are the only ones who love us unconditionally and …
What is the cure? Can we overcome these vital difficulties? Is it possible?
All difficulties can be overcome by Her Grace. But human ego finds it difficult to surrender. It entertains doubts and lacks faith and perseverance. It
When we have some difficulties and we pass through them. There are certain times in our lives, which we forever regret . How should we stop those old memories from coming to is when they just flash before our eyes ,even when we do not try to remember them? How to offer them and how to keep faith, if things will fall back into place, is it right to want things to become like the earlier times or is it important to look at the future? Also when there are many things going on and the Divine fulfils some of your desires but in other things you forget to express your gratitude, how can we appreciate what we have yet improve the difficulties in our nature and not be afraid to accept and acknowledge them, worried about what someone else thinks about you?
Thank you for the beautiful question. Let me take it step by step. First thing that we must acknowledge is that life is not perfect
What is the difference between finding psychic being, psychic being come in front and psychic transformation?
Our consciousness is ordinarily tied to the surface personality by chains of ignorance and its knots ego and desire. But this is not all we
Recently I had a breakup with my fiancee and he had insulted me in a very bad and wrong manner. How to deal with this situation. ? I am also not able to sleep properly. Kindly help me.
A person who insults a loved one is certainly not worth shedding tears for. Mutual respect is one of the most important elements of a
Can you share a few words on India’s Independence day?
As we celebrate the 77th Independence Day of India it is time for young India to take a look back and reflect whether we are
In Gita, Sri Krishna says: I am time the destroyer, Can you please explain this? Sometime back there was an untimely death in the family and the person had lived a miserable life as in alcoholic thus failed in relationships and then when he died suddenly I thought may be this is Divine compassion which gave him a fresh start … is this right in thinking?
In the eleventh chapter of Srimadbhagawat Gita, Sri Krishna grants to Arjuna as a special Grace the grand vision of His Viswaroopa. Then the great
Why does mumma nag me and irritate me?
Mumma nags you because that is the Dharma of Mumma and she nags because she cares.
Mothers are like a miniature replica of
One resident doctor has being raped and killed in Kolkata. Sorry to ask this but than why such incidents happen and how to not get affected by listening this. Daily we hear some or the other news like this. Now is there karma behind it? Or interia? Or unconsciousness? Why that freedom has being given to such forces that leads to these kind of events? Like this to who is safe, in this universe?
Regarding the cruel incident you mention, isn’t it strange (and painful) that we think of something other than ourselves only when such extreme things happen?
I think that Fire burns/purifies. How does it makes all alive. What for this “all” represents?
By removing the dross and the dullness it makes everything shine in its original purity thereby making everything come alive.
In other words before the
What to tell a child when he asks, “Why I cannot see God”?
God is the formless essence of everything. He has brought the world out of Himself and built the roads of mind and senses to experience
What are your thoughts on donation of the body organs after death, from a spiritual perspective?
Body donation is a Christian and some neo – Buddhist doctrines that regards the body as essentially inert matter with no utility after death. Certain
I come from a religious family and I grew up listening to religious books and seeing religious rituals. I could not relate to it and rebelled against it to find my own but after coming to Sri Aurobindo and the Mother, I see there is some truth in both paths. However, one question comes to me based on what I heard while listening to Puranas in childhood. Its said that there are Yugas which come one after the other and this cycle keeps going on. If current one is Kali Yuga, does Supramental manifestation mean return of Satyayuga? Also, we started from Satyuga, then Treta, then Dwapar and then Kali Yuga, where were humans more evolved? And if I relate the human history and anthropology (based on book ‘Sapiens’,) we have evolved from Chimps and are on an upward evolutionary path. Then I am not able to understand the presence of Satyuga, Treta and Dwapar on the timeline where humans seems more evolved. I am not able to put it all in perspective?
The concept of the four yugas implies that there have been a number of cycles (six to be precise) through which creation and perhaps humanity
Why do I feel like I’m failing every day when doing Yoga?
Yoga does not necessarily move in an uninterrupted straight line. Some days you will progress very far, and other days you will progress very slowly.