We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.
This is a dedicated site for those who are searching for answers, who want to break from their present repeating circles of life and looking for answers that will understand them, help them find a new way-a new solution towards life beautiful and Divine.

Why one has to face so many challenges in life😥?
Every time one attempts to grow wider and higher, we have to go through the challenges, both to test the readiness as well as to

Isn’t central being something that is outside manifestation, one that is already in contact with the Divine and hence already surrender to the Divine🤔?
The central being itself has three types of relation with the Divine in the Supermind corresponding to its three layer before it enters the evolutionary

Sometimes once profession may act as an hindrance or bondage to rising above … what choice should one make in that case😬?
If we go by the teachings of Sri Aurobindo and the Mother no work or profession should be a hindrance. It is the attitude that

I’ve been pondering on the question why you get attracted to certain people as friends. Somebody quoted mother as saying that it is because people recognise each other in the subtle physical. Can you explain this🤔?
The Mother spoke of affinities. There can be several levels of affinity that is instinctively and intuitively felt. There is psychic affinity that goes through

In the opening chapter of the human cycle, there’s a passage on how over time prakriti is devalued and became a subject of purusha and in western research there is this observation that with the axial age around 500bc with Buddhism, Jainism and later Plato in Greece etc.. where man felt truth as up there and something above and earthly realm is denigrated and in the 20th century philosophy, literature and culture there was a revolt against this notion and this vitalist affirmation of life here and now happened. So is this phenomenon in a way unconsciously a return of the worship of the mother and her dance in this earthly life cos humanity seemed to have stopped worshipping her in favour of Nirvana/god the father up in the sky above😏
Absolutely. The conception of God who is averse to beauty and rhythm, in general with Nature, a strict and intolerant judge who is quick to

I feel blessed people have luxuries and riches in life😡?
Who knows it can be the other way round as more the luxuries one has, the more one tends to become lazy and be enslaved

My Partner had cheated and now settled with another person what about me, it’s so unfair😪 …
Cheating is not a good word because it is based on the Christian idea of marriage as a permanent joining of man and a woman

Why did Krishna not marry Radha 😏if he said he loved her the most, he was God he could have done anything and changed things? Also what happened to Radha after Krishna went to Dwarka? Did she marry?
The story of Radha and Krishna is a profound mystic tale of the love of the human soul and the Divine. Radha is the personification

Earlier I was in a relationship and had decided to get married but my parents opposed and also I felt it was not based on anything higher and no joy was there being with that person so I left him. Afterwards when I decide to get married I feel guilt and feel that its not something a noble person would do, that it would be better to remain single. Even if I decide to get married I am scared my mind might change later. But I am not able to remain single also. However there is no obstacle when it comes to having a relationship without marriage. But i am not ready for that too. Many times i felt marriage is not meant for me. I think with some kind of support i will be able to live a single life. How to navigate such a situation? How do i bring about a balance? Or should I try to get married😬?
Guilt is out of place here, if it ever has a place. The nobility or ignobility of an action depends upon the motive and not

When Sri Aurobindo says, “Transform all attachment into a deep and stainless purity.” Can you please explain, What does he mean by that🤔?
Attachments are invariably accompanied by expectations and desires from or about the person to whom we are attached. They arise because of the ego which

What is Vital Attraction😬?
It is the attraction whose source and motive is mutual pleasure, play of sexual passions, emotional interchange, attraction towards the body and physical appearances with

I read in questions and answers by mother something she said about seeing people in a dream and its significance… i tried experimenting and saw very interesting results. How to learn to interpret these experiences correctly? For example, if in a dream I see diamonds 💎in the eyes of another person, what could be the meaning?
Dream interpretation is a whole science and an art by itself. It is a language one has to learn but a language much like ancient

Martial arts and bodybuilding — many men nowadays seek to participate in martial arts and gymming to become more self-confident. And it appears to work for many! What is a true basis for self-confidence🤸♀️?
The body is the basis for all that must grow and develop upon earth, sariramapikhalu dharmasadhanam, the body is the means for the fulfilment of

Why relationships often end badly😪?
Love is the most powerful force in creation. Hence to hold and keep it requires a great strength and wideness and a capacity to give.

While going through the Agenda today, I came across a very important observation of the Mother: This is exactly the state of consciousness I am living in now. It’s as if I were facing the same eternal problem but… from a NEW POSITION. [conti]
The position of the materialist is that matter alone is real and all other experiences are imaginary or unreal. The position of the typical mystic

How to face the challenges of mind when the mother’s force act upon it especially a lot of doubt and narrowness arising in mind and when the doubt come it have given a pain and restlessness in lower part. When i have try to reject this thoughts they are again coming and coming in surface mind. When i feel psychic pressure then it is vanish. Why the two paradox in spiritual life? When we closer to the divine the obstacles are vanishing but that obstacles are oppose to find the divine. Dada can you advice what should i do because i have felt the presence of the divine within my heart but i don’t feel it everytime because obstacles are opposing. I also want to the devotion, surrender, love towards the mother but when i touch some good experience after that i also feel the difficulties of nature. Please Dada suggest me why it is happen and how to deal with this situation and how to cultivate the faith, devotion and aspiration towards the Mother during the challenges of nature😏?
The raising of obstacles either soon after or just before touching some new experience or spiritual possibility is quite common. In fact it is almost

What are your thoughts on the term “self-love,” which has become quite popular these days? It emphasizes loving yourself unconditionally, knowing your value, prioritizing yourself over others, recognizing your worth, and accepting your flaws. Personally, I find it to be somewhat selfish and self-centered. How can we better understand this concept, if it truly has any deeper significance?
There are two sides to this concept. To have a healthy acceptance of oneself, of one’s physical being and psychological personality, the way one looks

When you aspire to dedicate yourself to the Divine Mother but find yourself drawn to material pursuits such as building a career, earning money, travelling, supporting and making your parents happy, it often feels like navigating two conflicting paths. How can one choose which direction to follow😬?
Choice has already been made by your soul. But nature, especially outer nature does not easily respond or follow upon this inner choice. It is