We know of so many people who are facing impossible situations and problems and they are helpless. They do not know what to do or whom to ask.
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Sometimes without any reason I feel sad, depressed, no will to talk to anyone, a strong urge of leaving everything and Live in a Himalayan village (though don’t have dare to leave own comfort zone) etc. Whats the reason???
The state you describe is a kind of vairagya that sometimes takes the form of sadness. As you have experienced these feelings are like waves

How not to form bad habits?
First of all we should watch over our thoughts. Whatever we think often we tend to do it. What we do we tend to repeat

I am in a thankless job where my seniors do not respect me. What should i do?
To get respect from seniors is a near impossible thing. Better not to expect anything from them. Instead

What should be the right attitude towards work?
Work is not about reward and punishment, success and failure, they are reactions of mind.
One should put the best possible effort taking it as

My parents and relatives are telling me to go abroad and do a course as they think I am too attached to my home and city. My only reason for not going is that I don’t want to leave home. Please Advise.
But you should go. If you go you will grow wide. To understand things, you need to go around the world and see. This will

Sometimes I feel no one values me. How do I stop that feeling?
Human beings do not know the value of things, let alone of people because they see everything from the lens of their selfish advantage. Generally

How to deal with manipulative people ? How to deal with people who use other people for their own benefit ?
What one needs to do is to draw clear boundaries and refuse to be a puppet to someone’s demands. Our choices and actions actions should

Sometimes but very rarely my 6 year old has bad dreams. If I ask her what it was about she says she doesn’t remember. How do I comfort her ?
Bad dreams that sometimes may take the place of nightmares are not uncommon in children. They may come either because

Please explain Hindutv of Sri Aurobindo and Hidutva of our sanskruti
Sri Aurobindo did not use the word Hindutva. The term has been coined more recently by Veer Savarkar ji. However everybody seems to put their

What is the most surprising thing in the world?
Well this question was answered by Yudhishthira, “Everyday people die and yet man thinks he is immortal.”
This well known phrase in the Mahabharata during

My mother-in-law interferes in everything in our lives, to the extent that she will change things in my room. My husband being a mamma’s boy does not seem to have a problem with this. He has to report everything to her, I do not like this. How can I manage this problem? as every time I end up fighting with him and always she continues to do what she does.
There is a tact and an art in this. You need to talk to your husband in a manner that he understands your point. Instead

My father scolds me in front of my new wife in a very insulting way. I do not like it and I feel she is losing respect for me. Nowadays I have started retaliating back but that stops him for that time but next time he again loses his temper and does the same thing. Please Advise
You need to draw the line and make it clear to him that this is unacceptable. Instead of retaliating you should discuss

My problem is that I want to trust on my kids but some outer circumstances and views I can’t trust on him. So what practice I should do to regrading these trust issues?
Whether we can have trust on the children or not we have to keep a watch over them till they grow up into responsible adults.

My mother-in-law does not let go of the control in the house even after years. She makes me feel that the house we stay together is her house, I too want to feel that I am living in my house. What to do?
It takes time to build a relationship and win the trust and confidence of those who are already there. It applies in the field of

Every time I am doing something important in my life, my father will tell me that it will not work out and I should not have my hopes too high, he is such a pessimist but still he gets inside my head and I am upset and full of tension, why is he not supporting me?
The question you need to ask is not why your father is not supporting you but that why you still believe

Can you please explain the difference between Gayatri and Savitri? How do you get this continuous flow of thoughts on any subject?
Gayatri is the personification of a specific metre in Sanskrit poetry. As a goddess, she is supposed to be the power behind the inspirations and

My daughter demands that we buy branded expensive clothes for her just like her friends wear. We cannot afford it but then I worry she will look the odd one out and girls will not include her in their group.
Explain to her through stories and examples that the value of a human being does not depend on how she looks or the clothes one

What impact does self-belief have on one’s ability to achieve success?
Naturally self belief or rather faith, – faith in