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My mother has a little request for you. She was asking if you could one day give a talk on parenting. Nowadays she sees many newer generation parents who are unable to handle their children. They are not strict and firm, even when they need to be. Some parents completely neglect the child and give the excuse of making them ‘independent’. As a result, the children don’t learn how to manage themselves properly. Unfortunately, some of them fall into the hands of the wrong company and take a dangerous route (drugs, etc). If you could give a little talk on this topic, that would be greatly appreciated. 🧑‍🍼🌱🏡🤹❤️

Actually there are a number of talks on auromaa on the issue of parenting  possibly under the subject of Education. There is also one on freedom and discipline. But one can always take it up in the context that you suggest. Will do so one of the days and let you know.

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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