As I mentioned earlier, I would probably not panic if I was sure this was a thoughtful decision, but clearly it is not. Both of them tend to make impulsive decisions most of the times. Hence the worry.
I understand your worries. Human beings worry because they want the future to be shaped in a certain way. They try to foresee and plan the future according to their ideas and wishes. But what they refuse to see and understand is that there is a higher Power, a greater Wisdom that oversees these things. Sometimes the actions of this Wisdom seems to as if fulfil our wishes and sometimes (often) it does not seem to bend to our caprice. Even when our plans are fulfilled outwardly yet what we were looking for through it, what we were wanting, goes missing. People take up a job, earn money, get married, buy a car, raise a kid, thinking that it will eventually make them happy. But does it? We really don’t know what will really make us secure and happy. That is why the wise who have deeply reflected upon this subject ask us to do our best but leave the rest in the hands of the supreme Wisdom of God with faith in His Grace. This faith and surrender to the Divine Will is the royal road to Peace, happiness and all the security that we need. Those who can take this leap of faith and surrender themselves to the Divine are freed from all fears and anxieties. Those who cannot remain in doubts and fears even when everything is fine around them.
Affectionately,
Alok Da
