AT THE FEET OF THE MOTHER
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I had a very bad dream last night, Dada, why do they want to do this to me? Why do they want to separate me from my husband? I can’t live without him. The dream was like this: There were two women and three men with me. They told me that you two can’t get married…๐Ÿ™€๐Ÿ‘พ๐Ÿ›Œ๐ŸŒช๏ธ๐Ÿซจ

I said, I’m just living in the hope that we can get together. Then they kept saying the same thing, so I told them, no, I won’t live without him. Then there’s a little boy who’s walking with me, and we’re going somewhere. Then the boy hits a bus and faints. Then I picked him up and took him away.

Yes the forces of destiny seem to be opposing your marriage. It is often the case that the forces that operate in the material world do not necessarily follow the movements of the inner being. Therefore most human beings live life as if on two parallel tracks. Random though it may seem, almost as if someone is deliberately doing mischief, still there is a meaning and purpose in all this. If you endure with faith then it will prepare you for a better, truer and harmonious manifestation of love. Pushing destiny to satisfy our wishes, desires and longings is never a good thing. It often backfires and complicates things. Offer your wish as a prayer at the Mother’s Feet and leave it to Her to grant it or not. 

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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