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Sir, my housemaid has cooked food today. My Mother is in a period, so the home maid cooked the food. We tried to serve our father, but Father got angry and started scolding Mother. Because he doesn’t like eating food made from the Maid. ๐Ÿณ๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿผโ€๐Ÿณ๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐ŸŒท[…]

Every time there is some reason, my father scolds Mother. I don’t know what I should do. My mother suffers a lot because of this; every time there is a reason, she gets scolded. My mother is not in the path of yoga; it’s very difficult for her.

I pray to Divine Mother that, ‘Please give them Your Grace so that they know what the Reality is, what we are doing actually and what should be done.’

I request you, sir, what my mother and I should do on this. I humbly request you. How should my mother and I deal with this? What should our response be?

The Mother would want Her children to be courageous, straightforward and frank in their dealings with people. Perhaps someone needs to tell him that his actions and attitude are not right. He needs not fuss so much about food and who has cooked it, especially when your mother is not well. If he does not like the food cooked by the maid, then he can cook it himself.ย 

This is what the Mother has said about cooking. 

‘The idea that women should cook for males is against my principles. Are they slaves?’

(https://incarnateword.in/cwm/14/men-and-women)

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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