When should I speak if little bit like this happen or extreme happen then? I want to know how to explain him but it’s very difficult to make him understand. It’s very challenging but I want to try.
I can understand and it is no doubt challenging. You can try talking to him when he is in a bit of happier mood. If you tell him right then and there, he may feel very offended and simply resist for the sake of resisting. But if you wait for the right movement when he is little relaxed you can try to talk to him then. Do not worry about the ego. It is needed at your age. Only it should be a good ego, that is to say, an ego that does not want to hurt deliberately. As far as your intention is right, as it evidently is, you don’t need to worry. Ego is needed in everyday life until one has found the psychic being. One has to surrender the ego at the altar of the Divine and not before human beings.
Affectionately,
Alok Da
