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Comfort felt with people — why is it that there are some people with whom you feel spontaneously so comfortable? I noticed that sometimes in choosing friends, you look for certain characteristics, etc. 🙂🦋[…]

But then, once you are friends with those people still there is still a sense of discomfort. And then some don’t fit your ideas of what a person ought to be (they may be lazy, chaotic, whatever…), and yet you feel extremely at ease and comfortable with them. How important is it for this?

It is due to affinities, a sort of natural mirroring or reflection of aspects of one’s nature in another person, or because of a certain similarity of vibrations between two people. It doesn’t mean they will be the same as each other. It is only in some aspects that there is a correspondence that can make an interesting discovery if we take a close look into the hidden aspects of our nature. 

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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