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People here are calling me a gossip monger because I happened to have confided into a few people (X & Y) around me about how another person(Z) ‘s behavior made me feel bad at a point of time. I never told that Z is bad but told I felt bad because of Z. I feel there is a difference between the two. I am feeling drained here at my workplace What to do, Alok Da? Kindly tell๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿ‘ฅ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ“ข

Anyways, I regret to have confided unto X & Y. I am called to be someone who lacks credibility and integrity, and seemingly everyone have lost trust and respect towards me. They (X, Y) even call me selfish, a masochist and a pushover – for tolerating a certain kind of behavior of disrepect from Z . Though X and Y themselves have conveyed all that I told about Z to Z himself. Also, people take my words and my personality mockingly and give rebukes behind my back.

It is a lesson of life and often a painful lesson that it is best to focus upon one’s progress and never ever to discuss what other’s are doing. The Mother would remind the sadhaks here to mind their own business. Anyways we all learn from our mistakes. Once the lesson is learnt we should get back on the main path of progress leaving behind the old ways and the world. The more you bother about the world the more it will trouble you. Focus instead on aligning oneself to the Divine Will and our true Divine destiny. 

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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