I feel like my sister-in-law fooled my brother in the name of love and married him for money. Bothers me. I feel it’s wrong and not good for him, one. Second, I feel scared for myself looking at her. What should I do? 👨🏼💔👩🏼🦋[...]

I have some insight now that I can’t save/protect his life. He tends to listen to her more. And she cribs for me a lot, I feel. How do I distance myself from her negativity? And stop worrying about my brother. Focus on me.

Yes, we must, first and foremost, focus on our own progress and development. Otherwise, our life becomes very limited and restricted within the limited family circle or the small little group around us. Family should be a springboard, a stepping ground to leap towards the future. It should not become a cage or a limiting prison for the play of the ego.

Affectionately,

Alok Da

I feel like my sister-in-law fooled my brother in the name of love and married him for money. Bothers me. I feel it’s wrong and not good for him, one. Second, I feel scared for myself looking at her. What should I do? 👨🏼💔👩🏼🦋[…]

June 26, 2026

Yes, we must, first and foremost focus on our own progress and development. Otherwise our life becomes very limited and restricted within the limited family circle or the small ..

Dada, does fate change? Like, I know, fate changes after the realisation of your Psychic Being. There is also a line in Savitri, “Fate shall be changed by an unchanging Will”. 🙂🙏🏻🪷🌄[…]

June 26, 2026

There are three different questions here intertwined with each other.

First is if Fate can change. Well, yes, in principle it can change. But there is a little clause in it. Fate is like a balance drawn in the book of Destiny. Each action, thought, will, feeling goes into tilting the balance one way or the other. That afterall is the law of Karma that it is we who write the story of our destiny by calling various forces…

Please help me understand the state of the soul for children and individuals who have severe mental disabilities and suffer, and have such a hard time in the world. For the examples below, I will give you–they have been diagnosed as “severely autistic.”👦🏼👧🏼🙂🙏🏻🌼🦋[…]

June 26, 2026

All these theories about karma etc are simply ways of trying to make sense of an imperfect world we are living in at present. This is an undeniable fact that the world is far from perfect by any standards, human or divine. But we also have an innate drive towards perfection, at least of a world that is happy and peaceful and progressing without so …

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I feel like my sister-in-law fooled my brother in the name of love and married him for money. Bothers me. I feel it’s wrong and not good for him, one. Second, I feel scared for myself looking at her. What should I do? 👨🏼💔👩🏼🦋[…]

I have some insight now that I can’t save/protect his life. He tends to listen to her more. And she cribs for me a lot, I feel. How do I distance myself from her negativity? And stop worrying about my brother. Focus on me.

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