I feel like my sister-in-law fooled my brother in the name of love and married him for money. Bothers me. I feel it’s wrong and not good for him, one. Second, I feel scared for myself looking at her. What should I do? 👨🏼💔👩🏼🦋[...]

I have some insight now that I can’t save/protect his life. He tends to listen to her more. And she cribs for me a lot, I feel. How do I distance myself from her negativity? And stop worrying about my brother. Focus on me.

Yes, we must, first and foremost, focus on our own progress and development. Otherwise, our life becomes very limited and restricted within the limited family circle or the small little group around us. Family should be a springboard, a stepping ground to leap towards the future. It should not become a cage or a limiting prison for the play of the ego.

Affectionately,

Alok Da

I have a question: is it bad if one of my goals is to earn money? I want to do so because I don’t have to rely on anybody else, and I can do things I would want to do and do my Bhakti and Yoga, and no one could stop me just because I don’t have enough money to take care of myself and my family. I would not want a lot of money, just enough to live comfortably and also help others with that. 💰😊🙏🏻🌼

August 10, 2026

There is nothing wrong in earning money. On the contrary it is much better to earn money through one’s own efforts than rely on someone else for it. But money cannot be a goal. It is simply a means to buy certain outer comforts. It can also be used to make the outer life more beautiful and even to help the Divine Work. The lowest …

I was in the middle of a dream where I heard a voice saying, “Wrap the blanket properly up to the soles of your feet.” Hearing that voice, I suddenly woke up. Right in front of my bed, a photo of Mata ji was placed. As soon as I woke up, I felt as if a crying sound was coming from the photo and the entire photo was shaking. Why did this happen? 🖼️😶‍🌫️🌸🦋[…]

August 10, 2026

These images generally arise from the subconscient. There might be some forces at play trying to create mischief. It is difficult to say where these forces came from or what opened the doors. The Mother certainly does not cry. The seeing of tears and the sound …

First I had a type of belief system like nothing wrong can happen to me because Maa is with me, now it’s like anything can happen to me, but I believe Maa is with me and about fear I have fear like fear for maintaining position in class, fear like what others will think about me in each steps, fear like fear to indulge in a conflict or the recent issues, fear like what if I died living an ordinary life. ☺️🌼🚶🏼‍♂️🦋[…]

August 10, 2026

I don’t know why you switched from nothing can happen to everything can happen. Surely the Divine Grace protects else this world would have been destroyed 10 times over by human beings. Of course the Divine Grace does not boast about how much and how many times it has saved and helped every creature regardless of …

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I feel like my sister-in-law fooled my brother in the name of love and married him for money. Bothers me. I feel it’s wrong and not good for him, one. Second, I feel scared for myself looking at her. What should I do? 👨🏼💔👩🏼🦋[…]

I have some insight now that I can’t save/protect his life. He tends to listen to her more. And she cribs for me a lot, I feel. How do I distance myself from her negativity? And stop worrying about my brother. Focus on me.

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