I also feel unwanted anger when someone says something harsh to me at that time. I frequently have dreams about my parents since their demise. Is it normal to have such dreams? What should I read or do to keep myself calm and avoid these unwanted mood changes?โ
Though our parents leave us outwardly, they are always with us in an inner sense. Our body is made through the force of heredity they have transmitted and our mind and personality are shaped to an extent by their influence. The best homage we can give to them is by using these gifts to make our life beautiful and ever progressing towards some higher ideal. They would be happy to see us happy and progress, to say the least. Hence, the best we can do by way of expressing our gratitude towards them is to stay simply happy and turn our energies towards progress. On the other hand, if at all they are watching over us in some way, as some people believe, then too they would only be saddened to see us sad, isn’t it? So whichever way you look at it, the best thing we can do about their love and care is to lead a happy life that is always progressing ahead.ย
We can also turn their memories into some concrete activity, doing something beautiful in their name as some people do.
But the best and the highest way is to understand that the Divine Mother and the Lord are our true parents. The physical parents have shaped our body in one life, but the Divine Parents have not only brought our true being, our soul, into existence but nurtured and nourished it through all the challenges across lives. The relation between us in our deepest truth and the Divine Parents is permanent, across lives and we should spend all our time and effort to forge, strengthen and seal this relationship between us and the Divine. And, I am sure, this will surely make your departed parents also very happy and fulfilled.
Affectionately,ย
Alok da
