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I don’t know if my family members don’t want to understand. He went to see the boy without telling me and hasn’t told me anything about that till now. What will I do if he marries me without my consent? 👩🏼💍🥀✨

You have to simply refuse, persistently. Nobody can marry someone against their wishes. And if you do not dare to stand for what you truly believe in, then there is no use complaining. One simply accepts fate and surrenders to the Divine and keeps faith and prays that the best may come out of everything. 

Affectionately,

Alok Da

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