But is it really just the parents or something else stopping you? Look within carefully as there are interesting discoveries to be made. For very often we transfer our own fears to others whereas it is we who need to summon up the courage to live by the truth of our being. "Is it so that if I was really fearless... I would not be bothered by the parents acceptance of something😕?

I genuinely love a guy (or at least I feel that way), but we are not in a relationship because we know that we are not perfect for each other. We live in different places, so we don’t meet. There were times when we had an argument and we stopped talking for months, but we ended up together. 👨🏼💗👩🏼🦋[…]

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There is evidently a vital attraction which is very different from love. It usually wears off with time unless there is a strong deep affinity of goals, ideas and interests.

Marraige is a different matter. It requires a deep commitment which can come only if there is some glimmer of true love or else strong earthly bonds of family, habits, customs, language etc. Besides, long distance relationship is very different from living together in close physical proximity. Many unwanted things begin to show up in close…

The Mother speaks about the Yoga of Works and says that it is the highest path in Sri Aurobindo’s Integral Yoga. In that case, would it be appropriate for me to become actively involved with my nearest branch of the Sri Aurobindo Society? 🛕😊🙏🏻🌼[…]

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It would greatly help your inner progress if you take up work, any work and for whatever time, in the Sri Aurobindo Center.

There is no testing done by the Divine Mother. It is simply a wonderful opportunity to progress, to develop Her Remembrance, the opportunity to offer your energies to…

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Your logic is quite correct except that the words evolution and manifestation need not be used interchangably. A static perfection is possible by a manifestation of the Divine…

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