Yes, a life partner with whom you can walk your life together and share the journey. Unless you have decided to stay alone. Getting married late creates its own difficulties of right choice and childbirth, etc. The choice whether to get married or not needs to be made over one or maximum two years. It is anyways a blind date since none can really know about the other person unless one has spent at least some time together day and night. And even then, surprises are always there round the corner. On the other hand, quite unknown people sometimes bond very well as they grow together and discover each other. Above all, there is the factor of destiny. One cannot tie up too many things as the mind would want. What is important is to see if the core issues, the central aim and values are similar. The rest is, as with all of life, a perpetual discovery.
Affectionately,
Alok Da
